Instruction
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In any situation before you apologize to mom or dad, you should cool off from the emotions. After some time, it is much easier to realize his fault and to understand what was the mistake. To put yourself in the place of parents is very difficult, because from childhood we are accustomed to, they always know everything better than us and, as a rule, insist on their decision even if it contradicts our desires. However, the older we get, the easier it is to put yourself in their place and realize that even if we – their children have grown up, they still care about us and wish us well. From this position it is much easier to see your mistake and feel the injustice.
2
When you feel the willingness to ask forgiveness from mother, speak through, admit his guilt and explain his feelings. Thereby you will give the opportunity to better understand your experiences. It is unlikely that you consciously wanted to hurt her. Do not forget to use the model of communicating "I feel". We so often are talking to another person about how wrong he is. In fact, beyond our words lies a different feeling. The essence of the model "I feel" is to ensure that every sensation should be formulated as "I hurt" or "I feel sad". But not "You're wrong" or worse, "You never hear me." Thus we give the other person a better understanding of themselves, show that we are not of iron, and each of us experiences their feelings. Listen to mom and hug her. The best sign of her forgiveness is your feeling of getting rid of gravity on the soul.
3
Often conflicts have grown up adult children with the parents has its roots from childhood. Unfulfilled desires, suppressed emotions may come to the surface in the form of constant quarrels and disputes. So very often adult children are in conflict with their parents, not realizing that the true relationship is harmonious, and parents are the mentors, partners, and often close friends. Feel free to apologize to mom or dad. Of course, in any conflict is the fault of both parties. The faster you can stop and experience it, the faster it will happen awareness.
Note
How to apologize to a friend. Unfortunately, it so happened that You had a fight with my best friend. The reasons may be various, from a completely trifling, but in the process of a quarrel drew all the sharp corners of your friendship to serious when you do not want neither to forgive nor to ask forgiveness.
Useful advice
How to ask forgiveness. Actually asking for forgiveness is difficult. Perhaps even more difficult than to confess his love to the object of their sighs. So start forgiveness with the definition in the soul degree of the fault. And only after that you need to approach the search for a way of forgiveness and choosing the right words that resonate with the most notorious sorry.