Without exception, all children excessively obliged to my parents, especially mothers: difficulties of pregnancy and birth, the sleepless nights, for the most wishes, children and not, and this list is endless. Of course, we can say that no one forces parents to give birth to children and then to suffer and suffer, lifting them to their feet. But whatever it was, that would not say for this reason the skeptics, the children always need their mothers, and so, one evening by the fireplace, throwing at the feet of his mom's fuzzy blanket, do not be amiss to say: "Thank you, sweetheart. I'm sorry for everything... from childhood to the present day." Even if the son or daughter there is no sin with my mother.
And if the child is suddenly hurt my mother a harsh word or disobeyed strict punishment, the main element of forgiveness for her will be to recognize Chad guilt, wrong, and the repetition of this error in the future. And sometimes the words "I'm Sorry, I won't!", uttered for the millionth time, are not conscious of silence, which was usually followed by a long, Frank conversation, revealing all the accumulated resentments and fears. And then the loving mother will understand how to make her the best child not to stumble next time. It is very important that this does not skimp on sincere words, gentle caresses, proving inexhaustible intimacy between the native people.
In any case it is impossible to dismiss the duty of words of forgiveness and accumulate a heavy load of resentment at his mother. It will not lead to solving the problem. After all, the realization that all is vanity, the perception of the world through the ego-perspective, may come too late and cause even greater pain than the flimsy grievances.
If an error or an offence against the mother too offensive, don't be afraid of big words, drops to his knees, as long as all this wasn't empty and stilted.
Advice 2: How to ask forgiveness from mother
Of all existing in the life of every human contacts, communication with parents is the most serious and important character. Even when we reach the Golden age and become parents ourselves, while still children, we sometimes are in conflict with those who are obliged by the fact of birth.
In any situation before you apologize to mom or dad, you should cool off from the emotions. After some time, it is much easier to realize his fault and to understand what was the mistake. To put yourself in the place of parents is very difficult, because from childhood we are accustomed to, they always know everything better than us and, as a rule, insist on their decision even if it contradicts our desires. However, the older we get, the easier it is to put yourself in their place and realize that even if we – their children have grown up, they still care about us and wish us well. From this position it is much easier to see your mistake and feel the injustice.
When you feel the willingness to ask forgiveness from mother, speak through, admit his guilt and explain his feelings. Thereby you will give the opportunity to better understand your experiences. It is unlikely that you consciously wanted to hurt her. Do not forget to use the model of communicating "I feel". We so often are talking to another person about how wrong he is. In fact, beyond our words lies a different feeling. The essence of the model "I feel" is to ensure that every sensation should be formulated as "I hurt" or "I feel sad". But not "You're wrong" or worse, "You never hear me." Thus we give the other person a better understanding of themselves, show that we are not of iron, and each of us experiences their feelings. Listen to mom and hug her. The best sign of her forgiveness is your feeling of getting rid of gravity on the soul.
Often conflicts have grown up adult children with the parents has its roots from childhood. Unfulfilled desires, suppressed emotions may come to the surface in the form of constant quarrels and disputes. So very often adult children are in conflict with their parents, not realizing that the true relationship is harmonious, and parents are the mentors, partners, and often close friends. Feel free to apologize to mom or dad. Of course, in any conflict is the fault of both parties. The faster you can stop and experience it, the faster it will happen awareness.
How to apologize to a friend. Unfortunately, it so happened that You had a fight with my best friend. The reasons may be various, from a completely trifling, but in the process of a quarrel drew all the sharp corners of your friendship to serious when you do not want neither to forgive nor to ask forgiveness.
How to ask forgiveness. Actually asking for forgiveness is difficult. Perhaps even more difficult than to confess his love to the object of their sighs. So start forgiveness with the definition in the soul degree of the fault. And only after that you need to approach the search for a way of forgiveness and choosing the right words that resonate with the most notorious sorry.