If you want to be the wife of an Orthodox priest, in the first place should worry about their moral character. After all, the Ministers of the Church do you value in a woman is not beauty, and morality.
So you have, first, to study Holy Scripture, treatises of the fathers of the Church about the family and other spiritual literature. And, secondly, bring your wardrobe in line with the religious rules. Priests are treated with great hostility to women in trousers, short skirts and in skimpy outfits.
When your appearance begins to conform to the ideals of the future husband can proceed to the introduction. To marry an already running priest is impossible, therefore, to seek a husband have among the future priests, students, seminarians. A lot of girls regularly going near the Seminary, wishing to become acquainted with the future priestmi. So in your quest you will not be alone.
Many future priests want to get married and to be ordained as married. The seminarians live in almost complete isolation, so to find a wife for yourself is extremely difficult. So there you will meet with great joy.
When meeting and communicating you have to remember that the relationship with the clergy differ from the secular. Be modest and restrained, as befits an Orthodox Christian.
If you wish to associate with the Church their profession, then they can enter the Seminary, the faculty of religious studies. So not only will you be able to meet there future husband-priest, but after graduation to work with him.
And finally you can marry a deeply religious man and to support him in quest to be ordained. In this case, you will be able to support a loved one, to go with him this whole difficult journey from Seminary to the preaching work.
Advice 2: At what age can you marry
More from Soviet times in our country there is a stereotype that the girl just needs to have time to get married before a certain age. And, often it is limited to 18-20 years. Recent views on marriage have changed somewhat, but the girls are still worried about "leaving" and because of this sometimes make rash decisions.
Marriage age in Russia and modern Russia
In Russia, girls were married off very early. In the 13th century was created the "helmsman book" - a set of Church rules that regulated familial relations. It was the marriageable age for girls is 13 years and for boys is 15 years. However, there have been many instances of earlier marriages. The Church tried to fight this phenomenon. Released in the mid-16th century "Stoglav" allowed priests to marry girls age 12 years, boys – still 15 years.
The reasons for such early marriages often were of a purely practical nature. For example, the bride's parents was difficult to feed many children, and they quickly sought to "attach" at least one of them. And the groom's family does not have enough manpower, and his parents gladly took in the "house worker". Of course, any mutual love there could be no question, and the marriage relationship in a young family often began only a few years after the wedding.
Now the Russian legislation sets the age for marriage age of 18. However, if there are special circumstances, a marriage license will be ready in 14-15 years. The laws of certain subjects of the Russian Federation specifies that "special circumstances" are the later stages of pregnancy, presence of pregnancy (≥22 weeks), the interruption of which it is impossible for medical reasons or because of the desire of both parties to keep it. Permission for the marriage of persons under 16 years of age, usually prepared by resolution of administration of region, Krai or Republic.
Factors influencing marriage
However, such early marriage, today, is still quite rare. According to statistics, most girls trying to get married at 18-25 years. To some extent it depends on physiology, since in this period there is complete puberty. Other decisive factors may be the desire for motherhood, the fear of loneliness or social stereotypes.
However, it is best if the main factor will be mutual love. After all, you can't want to get married in the abstract, at least, a lady needs a loving and reliable man. But it unlikely to meet "on request". In any case, you should not get married when there is no confidence in the chosen one. Stubborn though statistics still says that after 30 years the opportunity to get married is 7%, the problem in each case remains an individual. It happens that the girl meets his fate in 16-17 years, and happens and so that women gain the family fortune in 30, 40 and even 50 years.
Advice 3: How to marry a billionaire
To marry a billionaire seems fantastic unachievable dream, but actually, this desire can be realized. This is the same work as when you are working on the development of his career. The main thing is to have a clear plan and know what to do.
You will need
- The desire to change
- The tendency to study
To marry a billionaire , you can only if you really look at things. Be honest with yourself: if you have average looks, mediocre sense of humor, you have a bad figure and you do not mind shines, honestly make a list of your qualities, which need carefully to work.
Remember about the time. In order to marry a billionaire, you have only 10-15 years when you are in the most beautiful form.
It is best to start to catch a billionaire in his youth. Look at the sides. Maybe you know a pitcher talents promising man? Maybe you should focus on it, and when she married, to make him a rich man?
In trying to marry a wealthy man try to be smart and don't be too obvious. Don't talk about money and don't ask how much he earns.
In the presence of the billionaire of your dreams try not to drink, smoke, take drugs, behave aggressive and vulgar. Be Mature and elegant. You want to be his wife, not mistress?
Try to learn more about the lifestyle of billionaires, before you attempt to marry one of them. Learn horse riding, tennis, Golf. Constantly learn new things about wine, food, music, art – these are the topics in which among the rich people, they understand.
To marry a billionaire, take the initiative. Travel and spend more time where they are often. Try to plan your meeting, do not expect that fate will bring you such a gift.
Advice 4: How to marry a German
Foreign men are still popular among Russian girls. Many of our girls dream to get married and go to live abroad. One of the most popular grooms Russian women are Germans. They are stable, reliable and, most importantly, attractive. But how to marry a German?
In order to marry a German, it is necessary to get acquainted. Although finding a suitable foreign groom a little more difficult than the groom domestic, it is not an obstacle for motivated women.
Do not look for a future German husband in bars and discos which are visited by foreigners. Although the chance to get acquainted with a man from abroad there is great, it is unlikely that it could lead to something serious. Foreign men come to these places to have a good time and relax and there are looking for is not a wife.
To meet foreign man, you can examine the list of German companies operating in your city, and get to work in one of them. In addition to the good work you will get acquaintance with the representatives of Germany, as co - workers, and sent to your branch. In case your job will involve travel to Germany, the chance of catching a husband will increase by several times.
If the job you don't want to change, go to exhibition, involving many foreign companies. Find out which business centers there is a German company, and go to lunch at a nearby café, since it is likely that your partner is having lunch in one of these cafes.
Also, try to get acquainted with the foreign man through the Internet, using the Dating sites with foreigners. Even if you don't find the man of your dreams, you will receive great experience in communicating with foreigners.
After you've met your man, he needs to please. Russian women do not have to put any extra effort. Russian wives are very popular in Europe and in Germany in particular. Europeans appreciate Russian women for their beauty, housekeeping, femininity. They are tired of their emancipated women and happy to marry foreign women that will give a warm family hearth. Therefore, in order to charm foreign man, must first demonstrate their femininity, and thriftiness.
Also, since in this case we are talking about how to marry a German, it is necessary to show such quality as practicality, since it is a national German trait. If you are used to throwing money to the wind, try to hide it from your partner. On the contrary, show him how you are able to save and to think about their own benefit is a very attractive quality, from the point of view of a German.
Let's be honest, if you were married to a German for love, and not with a view to relocate to Germany, then this is a big plus and a guarantee that the relationship to it's possible future. Just quite common cases when Russian women marry a German, wanting to move to Germany for this, they believe, is not a sin to portray and African passion and wild love.
If You want to marry a German in Germany , You will be interested to know that, unlike us, the Germans start Dating for marriage only after you have achieved financial independence. At the same time welcome relationship in which the pair for some time live together before marriage. Sometimes this cohabitation is called a "trial marriage" that lets you know whether your partner and whether to marry.
Advice 5: How to get married in six months
Not all women prefer to wait for her betrothed for many years. It so happens that the desire to change their social status and become a wife is so strong that the woman has taken a lot of effort to get married urgently, for example, for over six months.
First you need to expand your social circle. If it is limited to colleagues and relatives, married friends, it is very difficult to find a candidate for the role of her future husband. Force yourself to entertain in public places rather than at home in front of the TV with a book or on the Internet. To online Dating is that a lot of people thus found their second half. There is nothing wrong. And men there are much more than in the agencies, and the atmosphere is much more relaxed. The main thing for you is to try to make their relationship as real as possible.
Consider what concessions you're willing to do in future relationships. What are you willing to endure for the sake of a treasured stamp in the passport. Do you agree to my husband's older? Want to learn another language and move? Then you should expand the geography of search and get acquainted with foreign men. There are so many women who have failed to arrange their personal lives at home, finds successful suitors in other countries. The key to success – good knowledge of the language and an attractive appearance. If the goal is to marry in six months, consider only the grooms Europeans, American and Australian candidates really taking their time. Decide on time and what you from a small town with a predominantly female population, does not hurt you to organize your personal happiness. The main thing is to be realistic and evaluate your chances. And don't try to lay claim to the Prince on a white Mercedes, if your appearance and education are average. Your desire to get married as fast as possible not allow you long to sort out the options. But the choice should be in correspondence work not less than with three men at the same time.
Try to choose a time. Ideal for fun and relaxation time when married people celebrate family occasions. In those days, single men are thinking about a serious relationship. And they can more easily lure in a network of marriage. So do not lose time and start to realize his dream.