First, stop trying to confuse the two feelings together. Love is one thing, but addiction is quite another. Love never means to die for another person, and to keep the spiritual thread with your partner. When a person is dependent, he is not free. And this is a real love – on the contrary, maintains freedom in a relationship with a partner.
Of dependent relationships is to get out of very difficult and even impossible. You need to rebuild your relationship on a more adult level. It must be remembered that marriage is not a prison. The point is not to deprive each other of liberty and the complement and harmony of each other. So the biggest misconception is to think that after the wedding life with your personal life, you can say goodbye forever. If this situation occurs, it is likely that you each other do not come.
Why create a family, to then constantly complain about how bad things are in your life? It would seem that this step both were conscious and it was quite the opposite. If we tie all of our interests and concepts to one person, then in time we will feel dissatisfaction.
Each of the partners needs to meet their needs. Because no one else fully not able to do that. The most common cause of crisis in families, usually because of the fact that more people don't communicate with anybody and chained each other to themselves. This implies all the problems in the family. Must evolve to meet the neighbours, friends and work colleagues. Go to cafes, parks and travel. Bring joy and variety into the relationship.
Be aware that a person has only one life, and how he will live, depends only on him.
