Taking care of a baby comes naturally to parents, they always dream that their son or daughter will be successful. Failure children are perceived as an insult, then may fall down accusations its second half that the child is stupid and a jerk, all in him, nothing can be achieved.

You need to love the child

To love a child does not mean that it must be the best, and parents need to hurt ourselves to get it all to provide. To love means to take the little man as he is already there. Ridiculous to expect perfect behaviour and correct action from the baby, which he and go can not! We have to help him to his feet.

Help is different action, especially in communication. With little need to speak, to talk, even if he still does not understand it. But he learns to pronounce sounds. It is important that he recited poetry, told bedtime stories or history that is age-appropriate. The child learns, knows, you don't need it in this way, it is better to help. Let him go barefoot in a meadow, not on the lawn in a big city, it's dangerous! Slaps in boots in a puddle, playing in the snow with their peers.

Anything for the happiness of the child should not be done

To act up can not afford, will have to work only to toys, the prices of which will increase in proportion to its age. And to give birth "for themselves", too should not, the child is raised in care. A child born to a single mother only to bring her a glass of water in old age, becomes a "Mama's boy", and "loving" mother would never allow him to marry, break any connection of his already grown-up men.

Many 40-year-olds live with the mother, they do not know how to build relationships, they, for any reason, run to the mother. And this attitude to the child nothing to do with sincere love for him has not. It is only a manifestation of our own selfishness and the great love of the mother for herself.

Family happy child

In a happy family do not have the habit to eat "dry food" that you don't want to cook. Tastes are formed in childhood, so the mother cooks, and the traditional meals (Breakfast, dinner) gather at the table the whole family. The order of the day parents are required to organize correctly that the child does not fall asleep on the keyboard after midnight and in the morning do not miss the first lessons in school.

And nurture your baby from birth should be mom, not entrusting it to strangers which carry out only a mechanical treatment, do not give any love or warmth of the soul. To quarrel in front of the child is impossible, it empties its moral, since love is from him alone to both parents. And to make hard choices at a tender age is beyond him, from the neuroses, changing behavior, and in the worst way.