Homosexuality as a phenomenon in Russia is associated in most cases with negative emotions. Some consider it a disease, others a lack of character and moral decline. The view that homosexuals have an earring in a certain ear, appeared in the times of the USSR. In those days homosexuality wasn't just frowned upon and subjected to all sorts of harassment and punishable by law.
As such, the system of markings in men, sexual orientation has not developed so far. Most likely, because of the persecution past and present. Gays are absolutely not profitable to be in the limelight and all kind of issue yourself. Today, the legalization of same-sex unions occurred only in some countries of Europe and in the United States.
In addition to earrings in the right ear, effeminate gay men can learn manners, gestures, gait, eye-catching cosmetics. By the way, these feminized sexual minorities are not popular among gays. Giving them contemptuous nicknames and not too appreciated.
Always earring in his right ear - a sign of homosexuality?
Now the definition of sexual orientation in the earring is considered to be unworthy. Because often earrings men do not have sexual connotation. Although clearly declare the originality of the representative of the stronger sex. But this does not mean that a man is gay. Just a strong sex loves jewelry and tends to use them to Express yourself. Stylish and fashionable guy can intelligently combine earrings and sports clothes and business suit. It's just not as common.
Much more earrings men talking about their belonging to informal groups.
In the 80-90-ies in youth hangouts earrings were a symbol of freedom. As well as guitar, long hair and other attributes of a hippie.Here a parallel can be drawn with the Cossack community. After all, in the environment of the Cossacks of the earrings had a special significance. So, the earring in his right ear pointed to the fact that the man is the only son of my parents. The earring in the left ear, the man signified only son of a single mother.
The pirates had their ears pierced for reasons of health. They know how to improve eyesight, just puncture my ears in a certain place. According to another version, the earrings you find out about the number of wins of the pirates.
In Ancient Egypt and Assyria exquisite earring in one ear was a sign of high status. In Ancient Rome, an inconspicuous earring was worn by slaves. The Greeks, who were engaged in prostitution, too, could see the earring in the ear.
Now earrings are a creative person: singers, actors. They see the world through the prism of their own, so the ear piercing can mean something personal.
Advice 2: How to find a gay man
If you want to know whether the man is gay, you need to observe him for a while, observing some caution. However, you cannot be certain for sure with her thoughts until, until the person confesses to you that the.
If you have a suspicion that the man you know is gay, don't try to learn it from his friends. The worst thing you can do is to ask questions about a person's sexual orientation to his friends. Even so, perhaps his friends are not aware of this. In any case, such questioning would harm this man, whether about gay or not. These actions of you or spread unfounded rumors about a person either openly interfering in his personal life he might want to hide. In addition, if the man finds out about your actions, he never admits to this matter.
Don't judge a man by the style of his clothes. There is a widespread belief that if a man wears tight clothes vivid colorings, he's probably gay. It is not, any man can dress in a similar way, it has nothing to do with his orientation. In addition, many athletes and metrosexuals wear these clothes, it's just a style followed by many.
Pay attention to how people react to talking about gays. Specific responses, outstanding gay, in this case does not exist, however, some signs can still indicate this. If a man defends the rights of gays, supports the probability that he is gay, high. However, many people who have something to hide about themselves probably won't care enough about gays. Try to discuss this topic with someone in his presence and see the reaction of the person you suspect. If he is gay, most likely it will be to listen carefully to the opinions of your interlocutor.
Reaction to the opposite sex can also give some assumptions about the orientation of the person. But here, confidence can not be. If a man has no friend or even acquaintance, it can be assumed that he is gay, although it is also possible that he's just a very shy person. It is also important to consider its age. If a guy goes to school and he never had a girlfriend, the likelihood that he's gay is much lower than if in such a situation is forty years old man.
Finally, you can directly ask the person about his orientation. However, you must be a good reason. For example, you are very close with the person and want to know everything about it or your friend and you as a woman want a relationship with him. If you are motivated by just curiosity, forget about this method. In addition, whatever you have done in trying to ask the man about his orientation, be prepared for a negative reaction on his part. It would only mean that he is not ready to open communication on this subject, you are absolutely not and.
Advice 3: What ear can be pierced man
The most popular form of piercing is ear piercing. It turns out that long since the pirates were able to determine the nature and behavior of man by pierced his ear. When they took to the ship a new person, they drew particular attention to this.
A bit of history
It turns out that originally earrings were invented for men. Already 7000 years ago they were made in ancient Asia. In Assyria and Egypt, wearing such jewelry meant high status. In Rome, a man was a slave. Well, the Cossacks are wearing earrings still, that just means that the male breadwinner and the kind of successor. In the middle ages it was believed that female ornaments have properties "talisman" first for boys, then for the teenagers. Earrings protect children from evil spirits.
There are appropriate men's jewelry?
In relation to jewelry now there is no separation between a man and a woman, not only earrings but also chains, bracelets and rings are produced for both women and men in almost equal volumes. The number of punctures you can tell a lot about a person. Piercing in men and the location of the holes in the ear have a different meaning than used to describe the nature of women.
If you have recently favored classic punctures (that is, one hole in one ear or puncture only in one ear), now young people are doing multiple holes in one ear, besides not only in the lobes, but the hryaschik of the outer rim of the ears.
Once there was even the view that the wearing of earrings of men is nothing but a symptom of homosexuality. However, men's jewelry, earrings - normal, but not all, of course, share this view. Men also love to adorn ourselves, which is a rare thing. Do not just make the wrong conclusion and to hang a label on a man. A pierce your ears for the sake of fashion and invest in it a different meaning. The presence of the earrings does not deprive a man of manhood.
Punctures in the ears and character
They say that men with earrings in their ears, possess such traits as:
It is also believed that such men have a lot of interesting Hobbies, and perhaps spoiled and narcissistic. Psychologists believe that the place of wearing earrings can fairly accurately tell you about the nature and inclinations of boys, youths and men. For example, if the pierced left ear, the man has ability in art. And when a young man wants to have an earring exactly in the center of the lobe means that he is kind and sociable. A man with multiple holes in the ear, quite strong and freedom-loving, loves to argue and is not accustomed to reckon with other people's opinions.
Sometimes men pierce their ears themselves, that speaks of great character and ability to focus to achieve their goals.
How many would not have pierced ears, and how much more was not planned, still not worth it to do them yourself. It is better to consult a specialist, as in this type of piercing are the main health and safety.