Blame nature
Severe – are not the result of bad parenting or childhood, as many believe, is heredity. If your offspring was passed on to "bad blood" great-grandfather, skipper, humble. To break and remake his character is useless. It is better to teach the child some restraint in behavior and develop talent. Certainly, his nature is not cheated.
Among people with the character of many highly gifted: academician I. P. Pavlov, the composer Beethoven, writers F. M. Dostoevsky, N. In.Gogol... Descendants are only interested in the creations of genius. And the burden of their personal flaws are relatives and friends.
Together not fun
To have a child Prodigy much nicer than the bully, which with age turns into a difficult teenager, and then he grows up to be obnoxious. For example, a notorious brawler, a gossip or a complainer. Such colleagues easily discourage the desire to go to work.
Be the first to stir that up for any reason, even small things. He has one desire – to shout. In the face the second you will find a "best friend". He would love to hear the stories of your family quarrels, unflattering remarks about colleagues and superiors will understand, comfort you. And will make you an eternal subject of gossip. The third will be no end of whining and complaining, causing sympathy. And you meekly work for two, to linger in the evenings while the appellant is engaged in his business.
Defect or diagnosis
In medicine congenital severe called psychopathy. It has certain characteristics: varies little throughout life, the same manifests everywhere and in all circumstances. And finally, a psychopath and his entourage constantly overcome life's problems.
Difficult to communicate with such a person: some aspects of his character are expressed so badly that differ significantly from the norm. For example, extremely timid and shy among colleagues, he can tyrannize his family, constant outbursts of anger and irritation from minor injuries. Or obsessed with their work, ready to sweep away all in its path, aggressive, vengeful, prone to crimes. From such determination, the environment suffers.
Sometimes changes in nature are caused by chronic diseases that violate the normal functioning of the hormonal system. In this case, will help of adequate treatment, care and understanding of loved ones.