Start your pregnancy planning with a conversation about children. The time when everything is calm, nobody is in a hurry. Talk about it when he would like kids, how you overcame this issue. It is important not just to talk about their desires, and to hear the words of her husband. You may be able to come to a compromise acceptable to all parties.
Communicating, pay attention not only to the words. Sometimes the reason for the reluctance of children is to fear to have offspring, to the fear of additional liability. It is important to know whether there are emotions in your man, or something else prevents him from talking about pregnancy. Need to find out the main reasons for the reluctance, after all, a bright future, sufficient income or good housing can and will happen, so no need to wait for those stages.
Remove the fear of children in other families. Find couples who already have kids, go often to visit them. The spouse must realize that the pregnancy and birth of a son or daughter — this is happiness that makes life beautiful and not complicated. You can trust him in the stroller with the child, so he started to get used to. Sometimes my husband just does not have enough knowledge about how to educate young children. Filling these gaps, you can persuade him to consent.
Regularly tell your spouse what your life would be happier, if you have a baby. Talk about how important it is for you, as you dream to take his son or daughter in his arms. Your enthusiasm can be contagious, maybe he wants to help you agree with your desires. But it is important not to do it all too often, if we talk every day — it gets annoying. Be careful not to get carried away, but do not give up the plan.
To get pregnant by using deception, if the stop protection, but not to tell the spouse. Of course, this is not the best method, as it can guess or be very upset by such news. Usually this is used in the most extreme cases, because the outcome is unpredictable, the man can even refuse to accept this child.
In the worst case you can put a man faced with a choice: either procreation or divorce. It is made only by those women who understand that another chance to give birth they will have. After 40 years, a period when you need to use the last opportunity. And then it does not have to choose a husband or children, you should act and not wait.
Advice 2: How to get pregnant if the man doesn't want that
The emergence of a child into the world should be a common desire for parents. But there are exceptions to the rule, when a woman wants to get pregnant against the wishes of men. In these cases she has to use different cunnings and tricks.
If a man doesn't want you pregnant, and your goal is definitely to have children, it is necessary to go on cunning. Try to convince partner that you are taking birth control pills, and do use placebo. Vividly demonstrate that drink pills. Open the packing from the men on mind, draw water into a glass and drink a placebo that he saw the whole process. Of course, pre-packaging, put other tablets, for example, useful multivitamins. Sometimes casually drop phrases like: "Oh, it's eight o'clock, it's time to drink the pills." Upon the occurrence of an emergency of pregnancy you'll remain outside of suspicion, because in medicine there is no 100% contraceptive, you can pretend like you were lucky and had the chance one in a million.
To get pregnant even if the man doesn't want that, you can in the abrupt cancellation of hormonal birth control pills. When you use these drugs, the ovaries accumulate the follicles with Mature oocytes and the abolition of oral contraceptives, all of them are released in one month. That is, feel free to drink contraceptives, the man will get used to the fact that you guys use, and a few months later, suddenly "forget" about the pills. Immediately take care of your health all collected oocytes and the probability of getting pregnant within a month you have a very high.
To conceive without the consent of the men in that case, if the self enters into the vagina sperm collected after intercourse. How you collect is up to you. Note that the mobility of the sperm outside the body lasts about twenty minutes, so hurry up. To increase the chances of pregnancy with this method, consider the additional favorable factors. Be sure to calculate the day of ovulation in your menstrual cycle, on this day the female body ready for pregnancy. Remember that the sperm easier to travel and fertilize the egg when your body is in a relaxed and peaceful state. After manipulating the introduction of semen would be better to remain in a horizontal position for four hours. It will be useful to soak in a warm bath this procedure will help to relax the body in warm conditions, the faster the fertilization.
If a man doesn't want you pregnant, you can resort to artificial insemination in specialized medical centers. The doctor will prescribe you the day when it is better to make the procedure. In this case, you will need to collect sperm after intercourse, in a special container in which the long life of sperm.
Remember that the heavy responsibility of child-rearing will fall on your shoulders.
Try to convince the man that the kids in your family. Take a walk with him on the Playground, will certainly Wake his father's feelings.