How to live, if the husband changed

Wife, who found out that cheated on her husband, especially if she is sensitive, emotional, at such times, it may seem that the ground was slipping from under his feet. Woman upset, feels betrayed, insulted. Often the pain of resentment so great that the temptation is to immediately file for divorce. But worth the stay.

Make a decision, lay it down and for reflection. Your emotions, feelings are understandable and natural. The more that women are generally more emotional men. However, major decisions do not take hastily, rashly. Try to calm down, pull yourself together. It's not easy, but absolutely necessary. Otherwise you just won't be able to talk objectively and impartially.

When the first, the strongest emotions subside, ask yourself the main question: are you willing, despite your insult, to continue married life with a cheating husband. Be as honest, honest with yourselves. It is not necessary to consult on this delicate subject neither with family nor with friends. Decide for yourself after weighing all the "pros" and "cons".

If you feel that you can not forgive infidelity, try to disperse peacefully, in a civilized manner, without quarrels and scandals, and to maintain good relations. This is especially important if the family has children for whom parental divorce and without that will be a severe blow.

If you are willing to forgive your husband, try to find the exact answer to a very important question: why did he cheat on you? The answer to it (and your subsequent response) will largely depend on your family happiness and prosperity.

To find out the cause of infidelity is to prevent it in the future. Some women, once in your situation, are quite natural and understandable temptation to blame only the wrong man, and to consider himself insulted by an innocent sufferer. Try to avoid this mistake and not only stating the fact of treason, but understand why it happened. After all, your husband chose you from the great variety of women, you the best and favorite. Why did that change? Try to assess objectively their appearance, behavior, habits. Unable to ask her husband: "What you missed, what did I do wrong?"

If you are overweight – do some exercise, sit on a diet. If you were too stiff, shy in bed, try to relax, read a book on the technique of sex. If your house lacked warmth, sensitivity, mutual respect, and make adjustments in behavior, try to be kind, friendly. And then the husband again will take you to the best.