First you need to understand that command respect in two ways: by force and intimidation or their own unique personality, and intelligence. The second method is naturally more complicated. And the first should not be considered because of its incorrectness.
Build your reputation. You are worthy, solid people and everyone should understand this. And to understand yourself as a boast, even a very veiled and tidy, cause the respect of the people, and the contempt or pity. Live only the way you think is right and don't be afraid to be different from other people. Avoid overconfidence and wordy. Conventional solid and calm "no" will cause more respect than an angry tirade.
Keep yourself in shape. Your appearance should match your inner strength. It's hard to command respect if you look like a balloon or a muffin – so it's worth to walk to the gym and get in shape. Internal emphasize the seriousness of stylish and simple clothes. Pay special attention to accessories cheap tie and cuff links with an expensive suit will look stupid. However, be careful not to stick out the most expensive outfits. Show off her natural and slightly sloppy.
Be smart and extraordinary. High intelligence is always respected, especially if it is combined with a successful career and an interesting appearance. However, do not always have the opportunity to demonstrate your high IQ. Such cases are good unusual Hobbies, talking about your originality. Jump with a parachute, climb the Everest information: raft kayak, etc. In this case, you will always be in the spotlight and will be able to show their best side, demonstrating your intelligence and education. But never speak on a topic in which I do not understand. You can reply that you are far from this problem and are not a connoisseur of the subject. Such honesty would rather command respect, but pathetic attempts to keep the conversation on a little familiar to you theme can become a cause of ridicule or unflattering for you conclusion about your narrow-minded mind.
Be prepared to defend its position. Conflict in life is not rare and in this case you need to prove its reputation as a respected man. Don't compromise, let them know that you do not approve of the views of an opponent. Be confident, not taking my eyes off him. Answer directly, carefully. Keep yourself under control, even if the person annoys you. Such behavior is always a matter of respect as opposed to who with foam at a mouth to prove his innocence.
And last, be respectful of others. You can never force people to respect themselves, if you are not will be treated accordingly to worthy individuals. Show them that you care for their opinion, show interest, empathize, and then they'll tell you the same.
Advice 2: How to get your husband to respect the wife
Most problems in relationships occur because of the lack of respect from the man she loved. For family problems sometimes women don't notice how everything they are doing for the family, becomes something ordinary. However, their concerns and aspirations are ignored. But it's never too late to rectify the situation and get your husband to respect themselves.
You will need
- Patience, willpower, belief in yourself, self-respect and desire.
Before you demand respect from someone, take care of yourself. Maybe you are allowed to forget about their own interests. Analyze, appreciate your contribution to the family, aware of his family members. If not, your task is to fix it as soon as possible. Take it and stop doing what you normally do. This will be a good example of that my husband just can't ignore and will definitely make the right conclusions, that without you it does.
Assign responsibilities around the house, especially if you work. This will make it easier to understand how much you have to do to create a cosiness in the house. Especially today, when many women make no less contribution to the family budget, women are not obliged to carry the burden of household responsibilities alone. Keep this in mind.
Learn to defend their opinion, desire and views. Do not let yourself to insult and ignore their own interests. You should stop any attempts to belittle its own merits. If you have any dispute regarding your desire to study, work, do business or, in the end, contribute to the family budget, try to calmly, without nerves, arguments to explain their position.
Do not abandon your Hobbies. Do not offer on the altar of the family itself. Of course, the woman was and remains the Keeper of the hearth, but this does not mean that she should sacrifice herself and abandon all she holds dear. Develop, grow, become better and better. People working on themselves, will never allow to show respect to his disrespect.