Flattery is a powerful weapon. It may confuse the interlocutor, but always hits the target. Enthusiastic words bluntly in the face, usually remembered for a long time. This method has only one drawback – you can be suspected of insincerity.
If you have decided on direct flowery compliments, say them with confidence. You can even rehearse in front of a mirror, then you will not forget the excitement of his speech. It is also important to choose the right place: it is appropriate to pour out your enthusiasm for the holiday party, but don't suddenly bring emotions to the cute colleague in the workshop. Feelings are feelings, but the rules of etiquette has not been canceled.
Expressing delight, give the other person understand that you are not waiting for his response to emotions. Otherwise, the effect of the outpourings will be the opposite – the object of your admiration will avoid you. Such behavior is understandable. The rapture is, let positive, but still a rating. Not everyone likes to feel that kind of attention constantly.
A more subtle way to Express enthusiasm is to write to write a letter to the poems or to make a gift. But if in the first case you will have to struggle with finding the right words, in the second, your offering will speak for itself. Expensive gifts should be reserved for special occasions, but now your good attitude will show a nice bauble – a toy, a fun Cup or sweets.
If you can't wait to confess his love known to the artist, it is not necessary to guard him at the entrance and throw on the neck with a hot embrace. Your idol will delight in a bouquet or basket of flowers, where you can attach a card with the most sincere wishes for success in creativity.
Still, the best way to show your good attitude is expressed not in words but in deeds. Especially if the object of your admiration is a loved one. Don't waste words unnecessarily. Just do what he expects from you. Sometimes it's just a delicious dinner, a leisurely walk, a simple human participation.
Advice 2 : How to learn to Express emotions
In today's world many people are afraid to Express emotions, I think that they will misunderstand, be offended, will cease to communicate with them. But actually, the opposite is true. Expressing my feelings one achieves the respect and trust from other people.
Inability to properly Express their emotions creates a lot of problems. If the person is closed to communication, he hides his feelings, then it is considered closed, some suspicion arises that the source is hiding something, not telling. This leads to the fact that communication is interrupted, the person is left alone. To learn to Express their emotions, it is necessary to perform simple rules.
Express your feelings in the dialogue with a partner. If the person did you a good deed or say kind words of your address, do not hesitate to thank him for it. Speak frankly, to Express the feelings that you experience in the shower. Don't let it be a simple "Thank you" and a more expanded expression: "How nice to receive from you this gift", "You're a wonderful cook," etc.
Reinforce their words with action, intonation, posture, facial expressions. If you are with a straight face utter the words of gratitude, the person develops a not very flattering impression of you. And the words spoken with a warm genuine smile, will leave a good mark on his soul. In the future, he will be happy to provide you another service.
Vygovarival what you feel in conversation with a partner. Clamped and you feel a strong emotion, say so: "I'm worried, do not know how to begin. The normal source always will support you, will give you the opportunity to calm down.
Negative emotions also impossible to hide, they need to Express. If you don't like something in the behavior of the partner, tell him about it. Do not be silent and offended. Maybe people do not understand what exactly does not suit you.
Don't postpone the showdown for later, don't collect their grievances. This could lead not only to deterioration of relations, but also affect the physical condition. Remember, the longer you accumulate the aggression in itself, the more it then extends to the partner. Perhaps after such an explosion of accumulated emotions, you will not be able to restore normal relations.
Openness in expression of feelings is the basis of confidence in interpersonal relations. If you learn to Express your feelings, you will stop running away from problems, and you will no longer have conflict in relationships with partners.