Instruction
1
Rate possible between you friendship. If your relationship was based only on passion and sex, after a breakup you are unlikely to become friends - most likely, after a few passionate "recurrence" relations you will finally quarrel. But if your relationship was friendly, sincere and open – you have a chance to remain friends.
2
In parting, behave properly, decently and culturally. Don't insult the guy, don't try to hurt him or throw a tantrum. Restrain yourself, even if you have something to say. Sorry guy, it is important to maintain friendships, tell him he's great, but you better leave.
3
If the initiator of the gap became your lover, do not try to begin to sort things out – the guys really do not like. Accusations and claims you only bring him out of himself and eventually't miss your chance to get a good friend. Want to speak – do it alone or write a letter which then needs to be destroyed.
4
Do not attempt to use the friendship to restore relations. Whoever was the initiator of the breakup, the first step is to make the guy. But if you feel that ex-boyfriend only wants sex, you better give up, otherwise you will feel used.
5
Began to chat amiably, avoid situations and words that may have a stimulating effect. If you want to just be friends, sexual touch in a relationship you to anything. Do not meet, especially the first time, alone. Chat in a cafe, in the company of mutual friends, etc. Control your emotions and thoughts – you should not allow yourself to think about your ex-boyfriend as a sexual partner. These thoughts your subconscious mind will be given by gestures and facial expressions, and your friend on a subconscious level they "read" them.
6
Respect his privacy and don't let ex-boyfriend to intervene in your. If you will fail this test, then you have every chance to keep the friendship for long.