Advice 1: How to write a letter to the front

To write a letter on the front, need to mentally prepare for this. Messages from the house and therefore valuable, that carry a charge of optimism, which has helped the soldiers to survive in inhuman conditions.
How to write a letter to the front
Instruction
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Prepare for what you will be writing a letter on the front. Remember that your relative will be interested in all the details of your life, even if in fact you live in the old way. In war, a normal life seems unattainable, and your letter is proof that it still exists.
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Try to write the letter in a calm state, otherwise your anxiety and pain in addition to your faith will show through in the lines of the message, and is punishing the fighter. But these news need to support and strengthen the morale of the soldiers, and not to oppress him.
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Start the letter with an appeal. If you are writing to a close relative or friend, do not skimp on the words "dear", "darling", "beloved". If in civilian life they are seldom of great importance, on the fronte valuable each of them. Be sure to put the date in the beginning of the letter (you can even specify the exact time). This will help the frontHovik to feel again with you, in this particular day and hour.
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Tell us in the letter about all who are left at home soldier leaving for the front. Do not talk about illnesses and misfortunes, if no serious reason. You can mention that there were minor troubles, but now everything's fine. Describe in detail what you do (literally hourly), with whom I meet, what to talk about with other family members. In the warmest words Express the hope that soon you'll be together again.
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Ask him to tell you in the next letter about his friends, about how he meets people, about how soon got your letter. Avoid questioning about the war. If need be you can, the fighter himself will write about it.
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At the end of the letter to give greetings and salutations to all the relatives – near and far, friends and acquaintances. Ask to protect yourself and, if you are religious, make sure you tell them that you pray for him. Write that you look forward to his return soon. If you or your family members recently photographed, put in a letter to one of the photos.

Advice 2: The reason the husband leaves the family, whether to wait for his return

For most women the care of her husband's family - a real tragedy. There mental pain, there is resentment which will not soon be able to get rid of. Immediately begin domestic problems – we have to think how to deal with the house one, how to raise children, how to earn money. Simultaneously, to look for answers on how to survive the departure of her husband from the family, how to cope with emotional stress, the betrayal of a loved one and a broken heart. In my head constantly swirling questions of "what did I do wrong?", "what provoked the disintegration of the family?", "how to return a loved one, if he's already with someone else?". Let's see, was the woman's fault that her husband chose to leave the family how to get him back and whether you need it to do.
The reason the husband leaves the family

 

The departure of the men from the family: common causes

Not in all cases the departure of the men of the family provoked by the presence of women on the side. Sometimes it is just an excuse, and the reason lies deeper. There are times that the man leaves, having mistresses, just as he tired of his wife.

According to psychologists, the husband abandons the family suddenly – if he left, so in a relationship was too much trouble. To provoke such a move on the part of men can wives, without realizing it.

Of course, not in all cases it means that you are a bad wife or mistress. It can happen to even the most beautiful and business woman. Reasons may be different.

1. He loved another. The greatest reason for which to return the husband in the family is very difficult.

2. Different views, goals, interests. This is a very serious reason for leaving. Different views on life, on relationships, on parenting reduce family well-being.

3. A man is not willing to family difficulties. When you have kids, romance and sex go by the wayside. There are more domestic and financial problems, which selfish or immature men are not ready.

4. Wife without interruption nagging spouse. Even the most patient husband can get away from constantly sawing his wife. In this situation, don't even need to wonder why men leave their families to his mistress – the answer is so obvious.

5. The wife is bad mistress. If a woman does not know how to cook, clean, take care of themselves, husband and children, do not be surprised when the husband collects things and slams the door. He may continue to love a spouse, but its shortcomings outweigh its benefits, feelings gradually fade. To expedite the care can the appearance on the horizon of caring, well-groomed and business women, creating an atmosphere of comfort.

6. Sex. If you do not give the husband the opportunity to satisfy natural needs for no particular reason, it is logical that he will seek sexual release on the side and sooner or later go away from the family to the mistress.

7. The integrity of both. In some families, develops an unhealthy situation when the couple is so principled and stubborn, not willing to give up each other even in small things. Such a marriage has no future – sooner or later, one spouse will leave, most men do.

8. Eternal bachelor. From the point of view of psychology, this person feels better when he is alone. For this reason, he is constantly looking for a reason for the breakup – even after the wedding.

Whatever it was, but most of the departed husbands back. How to behave if you decided to forgive your husband?

How to get your husband back into the family

1. Behave yourself, do not pursue the past, don't roll up your scenes and do not make the scandals - such actions on your part only repel partner.

2. Try to stay in a good relationship, maybe back to each other, and the husband will realize how much he lost.

3. Work on yourself everyday: give yourself up, a little lose weight (or just bring the body to tone), repaint the hair to appear in a new image, sign up for cooking classes, if you do not know how to cook. Stop being a woman-saw, if that was your problem, or to be too principled. Let the husband, seeing you, will think that he made a mistake.

And do I need to return the man who left?

When a spouse will realize that your breakup was a mistake, he will try to come back. But before that, think about whether you need this return, especially if the betrayal of the men was caused by his weakness of character, a desire to have fun on the side and a frivolous attitude toward marriage. Women always have a chance to find a worthy suitor, which may have been destined to do.

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