How to understand their feelings and to understand, whether you love or live with each other due to the strong habits?
First is to find out why you came up with such thoughts, you probably became something not to make in the relationship. This is understandable, because after some time of living together the passion is dulled, there is no novelty of the emotion, so the relationship becomes rather quiet and monotonous. This can cause boredom and thoughts about what love is long gone. And should we then live together?
Do not jump to conclusions. What you are not experiencing constant flashes of passion, as in the days when we first started Dating is a natural phenomenon. But it does not mean that love is gone. Just your sense moved to a new, more Mature level. You should be able to keep it.
Psychologists have identified several characteristics of family relations, which you can understand whether you are still each other or live attachment.Your partner is not perfect, but you are happy with him.
For example, you have always dreamed about the chosen one-the athlete and activist, and was married to a couch potato who spends his spare time reading magazines and books. When is the first emotional decline of your senses, you start to soberly assess their partner clearly see it's flaws and habits that have not been noticed in the period of passionate love. Here is the time for you to decide for yourself whether you can live with the shortcomings of the beloved. And it is not to live and endure, and to live happily and peacefully, taking man as he is.
You feel confident and comfortable with the person.
Aren't you concerned that now you are staying up all night, and the husband climbs into your bedroom through an open window. You realize that from a couple other pleasures. Are you happy that a favorite, returning from work, never forgets to buy you your favorite cookies that you each night falling asleep on his shoulder. Of course, in married life there is a place of unusual experiences and emotions. All depends on you and your imagination. Do not think that family life is boring and monotonous. Just you love and appreciate her choice, even if it does not suit you for daily Grand entertainment.
Love is built on mutual respect.
Neglect can kill even the strongest feelings. If the spouses truly love each other, they will try to find a compromise in disputable situations.
Love gives confidence.
Having a reliable, loving support, you can conquer new and new peaks. Support a loved one - is what gives us strength, gives us confidence in the future.
Speaking of love, it is worth saying a few words about the habit. Is it really hopeless situation, when you realize that love is no more, leaving only the attachment? Very often it happens that love is, people quickly leave and forget about each other. But man, accustomed to let go can be very difficult. A habit - terrible force.
Therefore, before you destroy the relationship, consider whether your habit is just another form of love.