Smack child: is it worth it?
One of the most ancient methods of punishment, whipping was considered as well as the traditional method of education for many Russian families. However, considering the realities of modern methods of education, is it worth wasting time on this method?
Many psychologists believe that if a parent tries to use physical violence against the child as punishment, it speaks of the insolvency of the parent should be able to explain to the child all the words, under his consciousness verbally, without the use of a leather strap or - what is worse - lash.
However, this statement is not entirely just to confirm: some children did not know how to process information, and 10-year-old is not always easy to explain why this is bad and this is good, so it is easier to fix a child's behavior with punishment when training dogs.
If you listen to the opinions of parents of obedient children, most of them agree that the main principle of physical punishment is moderation - spanking only when "the child really possesses some kind of devil."
"Side effects" of spanking children
Many psychologists believe spanking is not only an outdated method, but also those who are able to bring in a child's life is misfortune and destroy it as a potential talent...
Today, the human psyche is in constant tension, and the tension is even stronger, therefore, they may stractivate your concern is completely different - they may not understand why you punished them. Considering flogging the usual act of violence against them, they will be closed and you will Harbor anger.
To undermine the psyche of the child very easy if you smack it hard and since childhood. While it is unlikely it will change their ideological orientations, if you will see in your environment (friends, family, classmates) people doing what he forbid. In the future, it can only spur in him a desire to try the forbidden fruit.
To flog small children only in extreme cases: experts in education, and folk wisdom suggest to start acts of physical punishment on stage of adolescence, when the brain of a child "naughty" more likely.
It is foolish to jump from one extreme to the other: smack all the time - it is possible to produce the effects mentioned above, do not flog at all (especially boys) - can grow weak-willed people, so the ideal option would be moderation. Moreover, it is necessary to consider the psychological type of your child - someone who can perceive spanking as mindless violence to pass all my life huddled in a cocoon, having terribly low self esteem. Be careful, often you can just slap on the Pope (those who are younger) or to give a slap in the face (those who are older), but first - a conversation.
Advice 2: What is flogging with rods
Flogging flogging is one of corporal punishment, known since ancient times. Flogged and punished in Ancient Egypt and in Ancient Rome, and Ancient Greece. The punishment of flogging was widespread in Europe until the late 19th century, and in the UK until the mid 20th century.
The rod is shoots of birch, willow, hazel and other shrubs and trees that were used for corporal punishment. The guilty person publicly flogged a thin elastic and flexible rods. Interestingly, the use of the rod as punishment over time has been improved: the bars become thoroughly soaked in salt water, in order to give them even more elasticity.
Whipped at all times was one of the types of punishment applied to a person for committing a criminal offence. It is worth noting that since ancient times, a criminal offence was considered disorderly conduct, resisting arrest, petty theft, etc. the fact that be put in jail for that would be too cruel, but to publicly punish and embarrass people – is instructive.
In Eastern countries still use spanking with rods. Here only it does not suffer from all and only women. The basis for the application of this punishment is disobedience and disobedience to the husband, etc. Flogging flogging is still used in the parish and Sunday schools. The whipping exposed and children coming into these schools and adults serving there (singers, accountants).
Interestingly, in the parochial schools the punishment with rods is used not so much for the criminal offenses, much as the lynching of a helpless child or an adult. And that's a fact. Flog flogging in the parish with the blessing of, for example, systematic delays of the students. Interestingly, flogging with rods considered here is quite normal, though, and looks weird to modern eyes.
In Hungary flogging flogging is still the official punishment for certain offenses. Since ancient times, the Hungarian landowners considered it his duty publicly to give his serfs for 25 lashes. The latter regarded this gesture as a great location is host to the person. Peasant woman fall in love with men, withstood a brutal flogging, because he saw in them the real heroes. In Russia flogging flogging continued until the 19th century. Then the Lord flogged his serfs, calling the whole area, in order to turn this punishment into a public humiliation. The peasants were flogged with rods, tried not to make any sound.
Flogging with rods, extant is a real wildness on the part of modern society. Norms of humanity and dictate his etiquette: the modern man can be punished with work, exile, a fine, lonely, but not physical abuse.
Advice 3: How to treat staph in an infant
If a small child is often sick with colds, he is concerned about the tummy (flatulence and bloating), allergies and frequent liquid chair, it is possible to suspect an infection of a child organism is Staphylococcus.
You will need
- - chamomile
- - camphor oil
Pass the necessary tests to confirm the diagnosis – it could be a stool or discharge from the nasal passages, purulent wounds, etc. After the pathogen is detected, it is necessary to make crops on sensitivity. This analysis is necessary for the purpose of effective antibacterial drugs.
Antibiotics are not always effective in the treatment of staph, but subject to proper selection of drugs are sometimes used in the treatment of infants.
An important condition for cure is the strict observance of cleanliness and hygiene in the child care – clean hands and treated with small cracks and sores, frequent diaper changes, bathing the baby, etc. All clothes should be washed and ironed on both sides.
Selection of drugs includes, in addition to new-generation antibiotics, antiseptic agents, immunostimulating drugs, bacteriophages. Bacteriophages are the most effective means of exposure to staph, but the choice of drugs depends on the form of the disease and the affected area. With the defeat of a staph infection of the digestive system is necessary to prevent dehydration – frequent breastfeeding, dobivanie water and the use of special liquids. Affected eyes should be washed with decoction of chamomile or boiled water, between the instillation of antiseptic solutions. Purulent bubbles need to treat camphor oil. If the baby develops sepsis, then you may need a blood transfusion, intravenous vitamins and plasma.
For restoration of intestinal microflora after treatment you need to give your child a broth chamomile preparations with bifidobacteria and lactobacilli. If the baby is fed mother's milk, should be strictly monitor the diet of the mom – to add fermented beverages, reduce consumption of sweets. The child on the artificial feeding are fed a special low-lactose mixtures, mixtures with a peptide complex. If the baby is suffering from constipation (which is often during treatment), then he needs to do enemas – before feeding, preferably in the morning.