You will need
  • - attention parents;
  • - consultation of psychologist;
  • - consultation of the psychiatrist.
Instruction
1
Children of early and preschool age quite often take without asking their favourite things. It's not theft because the kid of this age often do not know what your different from others. The sooner parents give him to understand it better. The younger preschooler grabs a toy because she liked him. He does not aim to take her permanently. He usually calmly gives the typewriter or the ball owner when you're done. So quietly the child of this age to part with some of their own toys if they bothered him.
2
Often explain to your child that to take someone else's without permission is a bad thing. The machine was bought the neighbor boy who will be very upset if it will be someone else. If the child does not understand, why not to someone else, hide somewhere for a time his favorite toy. It will feel like it's a shame when beloved bear disappeared. After some time, return the toy and explain that if the kid will take the toy bear will be offended and run away altogether. Child preschool age strongly believes that it will be so. Take advantage of this gaming moment.
3
From a very early age the kid needs to see that the surrounding adults never steal. Even if someone around there that I sometimes bring home from work — advise him to abandon this habit. Otherwise you'll bring up the thief, who would take that to someone else — it is good and right. The child may grow cynical, to assume that it is possible to say one thing while doing the opposite way.
4
If began to steal the child of preschool age or even a student, show it to your psychologist. The fact that theft may be a symptom of some serious mental disorders and even a symptom of several diseases. Make sure that the baby is healthy.
5
Consider all the cases of theft. See if there is between them something in common. The situations are very different. It is very important to know exactly what steals the child and from whom. He may borrow money only one family member or toy — one of the guys from the band. It is very possible that the kid wants to draw attention to this person. He occasionally pulls out the contents of his father's purse, but it does not touch her mother's purse. Advise the family member to pay more attention to the baby. If a child takes toys or things from a friend in the group, consider whether he is not jealous of this kid. Ask the psychologist of the kindergarten to analyze the situation in the group.
6
In the described cases the child is usually stealing without intent. He's not going to use stolen goods. Often the baby is just hiding them. His goal is to attract attention and, perhaps, hurt the "offender". But there are cases when a preschooler knows what to do with a toy or money. He steals it in order to assume someone else's. It is possible that the child simply dreamed about some things, but you give him nothing of the sort bought. In this case, use other methods. For example, finding little thieves new toy, but not finding in my purse a certain sum of money, tell us what you were going to buy and why now can't do. We have to act cautiously, avoiding direct accusations. If the child really to blame, he will think about their actions. Very well, if you were going to buy something himself. He got something not quite legal means — means that have something to lose.
7
Ask the child where he got the toy. Investigate the situation to end. If the kid says he gave it to a friend — do not be lazy to ask the neighbor's kid and his parents. It is not excluded that the child, impressed by your persistence, he very quickly recognized. Do not leave him a toy. Throw it away or hide it. In the latter case, you will receive the means by which it will be possible to prevent such incidents in the future. It is enough to show, in this case this toy. But remember that this is a very powerful tool and to use it only in exceptional cases.
8
On the next occasion give the repentant child of such a desired thing to him. Let it be similar but a little different, even better than stolen. Explain that you did a good job, you have extra money and you are now unable to buy him what he wanted for so long.