An example is the request to leave you alone. Variations of this phrase a lot. When a child often hears similar expressions, the model of the relationship parent-child is being adjusted, pushing back the role of the baby from the first position.
The following phrase "You're so...". With this expression you hang a variety of labels on their child. Most of them are adjectives: stupid, capricious, lazy.
Most parents turn to the children, please stop crying. These words make it clear to your child that the cause of his illness and his feelings don't matter. When the baby cries, it is necessary to show your attention and care.
Never, under any circumstances, do not compare your child with other children, even brothers or sisters. This behavior may provoke jealousy and negative reactions.
When you are in a hurry, you begin to adjust and a child. And he, unfortunately, makes everything too slow for me. Perhaps you have never noticed this slowness, and it's not annoying. If a parent will always blame the kid in that he does everything slowly, the risk of develop in the child certain complexes. In addition, affected and self-esteem.
If you decided to praise your child, then use a different phrase, not a worn-out. When it is often the use of praise is impaired.
What could be wrong with what you offer child care? Nothing, if you don't use it every day. Otherwise, the child will initially focus on the failure. He is confident that he will make the parents.
In the quest to soothe the baby and the adults giving him exactly what has been arranged is hysterical. So you are telling him he can to manipulate you.
"Quick shut up, now calm down, hurry, hurry..." with a child you can afford to talk like that. The kid is not offended by such words, but rather the opposite. His behavior becomes directly proportional to what you seek. Moreover, in adolescence, he will become a closed and alienated.