Restored relationships: are they worth the effort?

Once you have broken up and agreed that your relationship is not worth the effort. But now want to try to restore them. But whether your relationship a chance to succeed?

The pros and cons

The reasons for the restoration of relations there are several. First, you had an obvious appeal even after a breakup. In addition, you already know each other and what things each of you like. Thus, you have a good starting position in order to correct the mistakes of the past.

On the other hand, the fact that you have each other irritated, very likely, has not changed, and will continue to harass you. A common past is not always a positive factor. If there was, for example, treason, it is likely that it will overtake you and in a new relationship, and you have to be alert, not accepting all the same direction. Another option, when definitely not worth the effort, is a situation in which one of you is not sure whether he is ready for a new relationship.

Rules restored relations

You decided to give a chance to their relationship? Then you need to follow a few basic rules that minimize the risk of failure: be honest with ourselves and partner be aware of what you would expect from a new relationship. You are really attracted to each other and can't forget? Or at this point you are just looking for someone I can talk to? In this case, the restoration of relations – not the best decision you can make.