How to learn not to go in children?

Often when the child's upbringing the parents have problem children are trying to manipulate them. Some of them are manipulated. What to do to not be held hostage to the children's whims?

Excessive guardianship of the child

If the child does not have any responsibilities, for example, to wash dishes, any request to run an errand (to clean up toys, wash dishes, etc.) the child will respond negatively to nervous, to quarrel with their parents. Tantrums will become a constant reaction. In order to avoid this, you need to see a line and not to cross it, can not be too spoil the child.

Education should take place so that the parental authority was never questioned. Even if during the games with the child, parents can be gentle and loving when a child needs to perform some duty, it is necessary to be strict. But it is impossible to raise the voice of the child and to swear, you just need to explain to him that his help is very important.

If the child is throwing tantrums, when parents don't obey his wishes, you just need not to respond. If the parents immediately begin to please and to praise their child, then manipulation is possible, and if not will respond to a tantrum, go into another room, the child will cease to be capricious, as he needs the observer. But if parents fail, the child will manipulate, put pressure on the pity and get the job done.