So, the offenses will not lead to anything good. First, never be offended in order for you to notice. At first before you will all apologize and feel sorry for you, but eventually get tired of all your whining and you will remain alone with his invented offense.
Secondly, it is not to be found in the words and actions of others hints that secretly reveal your shortcomings. If you think that you don't feel comfortable with others, then this case is not in them, and your suspiciousness and low self-esteem. Remember, people have much more serious things than thinking about how bad you are.
But there are times when resentment is justified and serious. In this case, you should be able to cope with it. First of all, it must be remembered that the native people offended by you not on purpose, and sometimes need to understand and accept. Recall for yourselves how many times you've hurt people close to you on their own carelessness or concerns.
Try to talk to your abuser. Explain to him that he's hurt and unpleasant, try not to scream and not hysterical. Tell us about your feelings calmly and leave the man alone, to think about their actions, trust me, he will make the right choice.