The reason and motives
Men are very hard to survive a breakup. They often take it as a personal insult from the woman. Hence the threat of violence or violence.
Evaluate the motives and purpose of the threats. In such cases, the husband either wants you back or it is a real threat to you and your family. In the first case, don't worry. Over time, the former spouse will calm down and stop putting the pressure on you. If the threat is real, do not try to fix it yourself. Immediately contact the police. In the Russian legislation, physical threats and blackmail are criminal offences. The law is on your side. Also, try as little as possible to get out of the house unaccompanied.
What to do
Try to fix the fact of threats. Save text messages, record phone calls. Wear with a tape recorder or camera. If the husband caught you on the street while you're alone, write down what he says. In court, it will be irrefutable proof of his guilt.
It also happens that some threats ex-husband not limited. It can access your correspondence online call detail records. It is possible that he will call not only you but also your friends and family. In this case, you must also write a statement. There are several laws under which the actions of a spouse will be regarded as an invasion of privacy. In this case he faces the appropriate punishment.
If the ex-husband threatens to take your child through the court, remember that most often in such cases the mother wins. But, when the husband wants to steal it, do not leave the child unattended. Allot and take him out of school, circles and sports sections. If you can not, ask relatives or friends that you trust. Again, write a statement to the police.
It is important to remember that the main mistake women in any of these situations is silence. Do not attempt to solve the problem themselves. When it comes to the safety of you and your loved ones, think about the reputation of the former husband or you need last.