1. Take children as hostages.
The threat that one of the partners will have the opportunity to see the children, is indeed a powerful weapon. Although men in this situation are often at a disadvantage, since the court often leaves the child in the care of the mother, never threaten what they will try to do everything that she could not see the children and so on. Children should keep away from your bickering!
The most common factor that turns a relatively normal communication between the two divorcing people is disgusting sorting out dirty Laundry, is another woman. So you can hardly be surprised your ex-partner that any mention of your lover happens to her bout of hysterics. You would not like the interference of her new partner. Divorce is a matter which concerns only the two of you, so do not connect any other.
3. Use verbal attacks.
Almost all divorcing argue, but this does not mean that in the context of clarifying positions, you must apply the communication, for which you will later be ashamed. Threats, emotional blackmail, vulgarity, and similar types of verbal weapons characteristic of the primitive individuals but not for you.