How to tell my parents that I live with a guy

Cohabitation with a lover is an important and crucial step that parents might not approve of. To inform them about the planned changes in advance, not procrastinating and not hiding anything. In this case, the likelihood that they will understand you and will support, is very high.

Instruction

1. Before you tell your parents the news about the change of residence, make sure they know your partner. Let them know that you have strong feelings: invite your beloved to visit, go on walks with him and parentsI. They should trust this man.
2. Let parents understand that you are a Mature adult who is responsible for their actions and able to cope with the difficulties and keep all the money in the first payday, learn to solve small domestic problems independently.
3. Don't beat around the Bush, just get to the main idea - inform them of your intentions, give successful examples from the experience of their friends. Tell me what you're going to live together, when do you plan to start. Try not to burden them with your problems connected with moving: prepare the material base, find housing.
4. Before you tell your parents, decide for yourself - whether you want a joint life with your partner, perhaps the decision to live together is dictated by emotions. You must be sure favorite person in his and her intentions.
5. Don't delay the conversation with your parentsand they'll find out anyway, sooner the better if you delay, you risk to yourself, maybe your parents have nothing against that, and you will be in constant tension. Deep down, all parents dream to give his daughter in marriage, and civil marriage is a step in the right direction.
6. Encourage your young person to talk with your parentsand when they see his reverent attitude to you - it will be much easier to let you go.
7. Promise your parentsthat you will be regularly to visit them, because for them your leaving home is a huge stress to overcome which takes time.
8. Tell parents about your plans for the future, they should be aware of. If you are in the long term plan the marriage, report it immediately, parents easier to transfer the information that you will move out.