What if the guy lost interest

In different periods of life the relationship between two people can change from love to indifference, and even complete loss of interest in each other. So how do you determine the first signs of cooling of the guy and what to do to revive and strengthen his feelings for you?

Whether your guy lost interest in you?

You have been so? Suddenly, there's a disturbing thought: "My guy lost interest..."? You met, enjoyed each hour spent together. But once I felt that he is not the same. Your loved one looks the same as before, not listening to what you tell us and not candles. Alas, all that remained of the past, and your relationship are not the same.

Life is rich with many diverse sensations, pleasant and joyful, and sometimes sad and very sad. But, if it were not for unpleasant moments in life, would people appreciate happy hours and days?

The sudden shift from joy to sadness scares you, makes you act rashly. This is where you need to stop, give yourself time to think. After all, may be a variety of reasons for the cooling relations. Perhaps your guy is just tired, he's in trouble at work. So can be everyone.

In this situation it is best not to make a scandal or questioning the tired and frustrated man. This can cause rupture of relations. The best option in a relaxed atmosphere to discuss the reason why the guy lost interest, as you think it is. It is very likely that your relationship has not changed, and you will be happy to continue to call him "my boyfriend", "my".

If your boyfriend was cold to you

If you find that your guy was to you to be steadfast, and you don't want to part with this man, no need to panic. Soberly assess the situation and plan their future actions. Remember? Men are hunters by nature. They are interested in a new, unattainable. Perhaps you got complacent, stopped being a mystery to her boyfriend.

Pause for a period, make him feel that you can walk out of his life.

Make him a little jealous. Let him see that his friends admire you. But just do not overdo it with the flirting, don't let him think that he is you no longer need, otherwise it will further grow cold towards you.

Use that while you are together, and he began to grow cold to you. Take care of yourself to look at 100, make a fancy dinner. A beautiful woman that he hadn't lost interest, his favorite music and delicious food (you know what he likes!) help him to look at you with different eyes, to see again the one that he almost fell out of love.

Perhaps a relaxing, convinced of his love, you have ceased to follow him. And he always sees you without makeup, with disheveled hair, wearing old jeans and a stretched t-shirt. The man loves his eyes, you cannot forget it!

Usually the man involuntarily compares his woman with his mother. Think about what you can be like her. Try to emphasize this similarity. Of course, this is only if you are sure that your guy is a very good relationship with my mom. Otherwise you can hurt yourself.

Or try to to make your route to pass by the places where you walked, when your feelings to each other was especially strong. It stir the dying feeling and will help him to flare up with new force.

And again. Think about activities and Hobbies. Perhaps your guy enjoys Alpine skiing, swimming, football or hockey. If you really love and want to keep, share with him his passion. Spending time together will strengthen your relationship. And in conversations with friends, you will again call him "my boyfriend" and be proud of yourself, because you were able to win back his beloved and regain his feelings for you.