Advice 1: Is it possible to love at a distance

With the beloved man I want to be there every moment, look in his eyes, hear the sound of his voice, to feel her heartbeat. However, it often happens that loving each other people are divided on big distance for a few weeks, months or even years. We have to think about whether it is possible in this case to save his love.
Is it possible to love at a distance
That love at a distance does exist, shows the correspondence between the great people. Among them the great French novelist Honore de Balzac and his beloved Evelina Hanska, the famous English playwright George Bernard Shaw and a brilliant actress Stella Patrick Campbell, the great Russian poets Marina Tsvetaeva and Boris Leonidovich Pasternak. There are many other examples.

Love and modern technology


Today for help in love the advent of modern technology. They can chat in social networks, exchange affectionate TEXT messages for hours to talk on a mobile phone. If you live not seeing each other becomes impossible, to the beloved in a short time will take a quick plane.

Sometimes the love arises at a distance from the start. People learn online, with a head dive into the romance, I think that they were able to find their ideal. However, in such relationships, there is a risk to take for true love to just dream about it. Besides, on the Internet people often give themselves not for those who are in fact. As a result, the meeting in real life can bring only bitter disappointment. There is also the risk of becoming a victim of a maniac or marriage scams.

However, love at a distance can be and its benefits. If a man is alone and unsure of himself, even virtual relationships will be his salvation from the emptiness and loneliness, a source of positive emotions. The main thing – not to play too and not to confuse the real world with the invented.

Love and separation


If feelings arose in real life, and people truly love each other, a long separation turns into a difficult test. In addition, the head start to come unbidden thoughts about a possible infidelity. No need to torment his chosen constant checks often distrust kills even the strongest love. However, to leave a loved one completely without attention is not worth it. You can always find a way to communicate, which will be convenient and comfortable for both. True love is not afraid of any obstacles and distances. Separation may even strengthen it, forcing him to appreciate every moment spent with a loved one. As long as it is not dragged on for years. After all, the habit to reside at a distance from each other and capable of cooling even the most powerful and sincere feelings.

Advice 2: Is it possible to keep love at a distance

Modern people have more opportunities to communicate than their not too distant ancestors in the previous century. Happens even so that through the latest technological means (like Internet) to learn about each other men and women from different parts of the world, and between them there are warm feelings and the desire to continue the relationship. Comes out of this "love at a distance" anything worthwhile or it's better to weed her fragile sprouts?
Love is possible and at a distance

Can the distance be a barrier to love



The question about the possibility of the existence of love, when both parties to such relationships is shared by many miles, more philosophical than practical. In this case it mostly depends on the individual circumstances and actions of the two lovers.

Of course, relations of this type can arise in different situations. It happens that the couple met at a social networking website for singles or other similar virtual online. All the joint "property" is often in the correspondence, demonstrate each other's photos, but outside of the Internet reality they are not met.

In this case, each of them will have more tendency to idealize the other. In addition, there is a risk to fall in love in a dream, not a real image of his counterparts. Also absolutely no one can guarantee that at least one person in a couple is not a Scam, for some not noble goals "pothouses" friend/pen-friend a fictional story.

In any case, virtual friends - before you start planning a future together and to live such illusions, should at least once to meet outside the virtual space. Of such date (or better - several) will allow to draw conclusions whether their relationship is worth something or are they two never get along. If the current will be the first option, then it will be necessary to make decisions about the transfer of love from the Internet in real life.

It happens that the development scenario is somewhat different. A couple happened on vacation, business trip, etc. - in short, it was internal, not virtual. They were good together but our time together came to an end and everyone must return to their city, to the already-established life. Will the relationship survive in such conditions?

How to save the feelings of being away from a loved one



For starters two need to talk openly and to admit whether or not they both believe that between them any serious feelings, or was it just fun for the holidays/business trips. In the first case, it is not a sin to exchange contact information and continue intense communication, even being far away from each other.

Both lovers, it is also important to understand that the distance is really serious hindrance to their feelings, especially while they are still too fragile, and it is unknown whether they will develop into something more stable and sturdy. Because if each couple really dreams of a future together, they need to put a lot of effort to preserve the love and sometimes even to make some sacrifices.

First of all, they should make use of every opportunity for full communication. It is better to do this on the phone or email, and via Skype or using other similar programs where it is possible to connect a webcam and see each other. In this case, they will be able to some extent to fill the need for visual contact.

Also it is important for them to be the maximum involved in each other's lives. Here, every detail will matter. It is worth remembering the important for loved one/beloved dates, developments leading up to the birthday parties of his/her fish, cat or dog. Good memory in this issue will only contribute to a greater rapprochement between the couple and strengthen their relationship.

You must take every opportunity to meet. One date value exceeds a hundred conversations via Skype and thousands of e-mails. Spending time together is as productive. How she decides the pair. Main thing is that each of them received the necessary emotional charge from communication and better know the other.

It is not necessary to avoid small misunderstandings. Yes, to interfere with the rapid elucidation of the relationship should not be, but the visualization of the existing contradictions much better than trying to silence those things that lovers disagree with each other. In the second case both will just silently save the offense at each other, and the first case of successful overcoming of "inconsistencies" - will be even dearer and closer.

If you follow the above simple recommendations, long-distance relationships keep it is possible. Moreover - they will have a real chance to transform into something beautiful and lasting for many years.
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