Friends often ask us questions to which answers in principle, and not interested in them. These rules of communication. The phrase "how are you", "how are you feeling", "personal front" are more a kind of greeting. So whether or not to answer the question "how on personal front?
If this question you asked just on the go, you should not tell the person about the situation in your home, regardless of whether it is positive or not. You can smile back and also say the on-call phrase: "all good" or "best".
Another thing – your best friend whom you have not seen. She can also ask the state of your love Affairs, the birth of which she was a witness. In brief terms, to tell her about the main thing, they say, "I'm getting married, you're invited too" "I long ago broke up with him, we're not a couple" and stuff like that.
If you see that the person is too interested in your Affairs, then definitely this question also should not answer. You don't know what purpose you are asking about personal matters whether this person is good for you, so it is enough to assure him that you're fine. If curiosity does not cease to pester you with questions that you absolutely do not want to answer, you need to cut it with a phrase like "if I need advice, I will return to you" or "I don't discuss this subject with friends". Let this person think next time before you meddle in their Affairs.
Sometimes friends are very hurt. For example, you're sitting on some holiday friends almost all came in pairs, and you alone. Someone might ask: "How are things on the personal front? You're 30, married time". For you is already a sore subject, but there is. Don't show that you are hurt. Safely parry: "According to statistics, marriages after 30 less likely to disintegrate. So you married a long time, there is something to worry" or "getting married Soon, I'm sorry you can't come, because we celebrate in Paris." Such responses will not offend you another time and show your sharp mind.
But loved ones can trust. Mom, sister, grandma – they will ask this question casually. They can help find a way out of a difficult situation, and you better listen. Noticing that you have a sad mood or bad mood, they will first think you are going wrong in personal relationships. If all goes well, we hurry to calm them down, saying that you are all well and worrying is not worth it. Thank you for the support.
Asked for a reason
If this question you asked just on the go, you should not tell the person about the situation in your home, regardless of whether it is positive or not. You can smile back and also say the on-call phrase: "all good" or "best".
Another thing – your best friend whom you have not seen. She can also ask the state of your love Affairs, the birth of which she was a witness. In brief terms, to tell her about the main thing, they say, "I'm getting married, you're invited too" "I long ago broke up with him, we're not a couple" and stuff like that.
Out of curiosity
If you see that the person is too interested in your Affairs, then definitely this question also should not answer. You don't know what purpose you are asking about personal matters whether this person is good for you, so it is enough to assure him that you're fine. If curiosity does not cease to pester you with questions that you absolutely do not want to answer, you need to cut it with a phrase like "if I need advice, I will return to you" or "I don't discuss this subject with friends". Let this person think next time before you meddle in their Affairs.
In friendly circle
Sometimes friends are very hurt. For example, you're sitting on some holiday friends almost all came in pairs, and you alone. Someone might ask: "How are things on the personal front? You're 30, married time". For you is already a sore subject, but there is. Don't show that you are hurt. Safely parry: "According to statistics, marriages after 30 less likely to disintegrate. So you married a long time, there is something to worry" or "getting married Soon, I'm sorry you can't come, because we celebrate in Paris." Such responses will not offend you another time and show your sharp mind.
Loved ones
But loved ones can trust. Mom, sister, grandma – they will ask this question casually. They can help find a way out of a difficult situation, and you better listen. Noticing that you have a sad mood or bad mood, they will first think you are going wrong in personal relationships. If all goes well, we hurry to calm them down, saying that you are all well and worrying is not worth it. Thank you for the support.
