Frequent mistakes men
Usually, there are two extremes in the behavior of men at this time. The first is trying to avoid his wife, not even physically, but rather emotionally. This is reflected in the desire to stay away from her, do not attempt to provide psychological help, finding the cause of her bad mood. But the woman, especially in this situation, I want attention and care, it is much easier to overcome your problems by saying them out loud. It's vital to her life and emotional state was interested in, the more beloved man. Therefore, such behavior will not bring anything good.
The other extreme is overly Intrusive sympathy and participation. The husband begins to treat his pregnant wife like a patient, takes care of and cares for her, completely deprived of independence. It is often more frustrating than a lack of attention, as the obsessive care that makes feel inferior and becomes annoying. Therefore it is best to maintain a balance between these two States.
The correct behavior
First, we should not forget that the woman in the situation often feels fear. Even unfounded suspicions seem to be significant, and so the real problems can be generally insoluble in the eyes of the pregnant woman. She is very worried about the baby, worried about the birth itself, their consequences, the lack of milk and many other things. So the daily calm wife, even if it outwardly seems calm, become a support for her. Find time to learn about her condition, her thoughts, encourage, and soothe.
Should be particularly careful with daily use. Primarily from men requires careful attention to the condition of his wife. Observe it, identify which of her cases are easy and which aren't. Help where it is really required. Don't forget that every month your wife is becoming more weak and vulnerable and in the most recent months, she may need your help even in the most ordinary Affairs.
Do not skimp on the affection and praise. It is a good rule to abide by in everyday life, and during pregnancy, promoting will be very useful. Tell her compliments, encouraging words, support, emphasizes that she's a beautiful woman, an excellent hostess, a good wife. Admire her, focusing on cleanliness, comfort, delicious dinner, or her beauty, not the kind of work she wants.
Try to learn to speak women's language, i.e. to convey emotion, not just a set of information. For women information secondary, much more important for her sympathy and empathy. Worry and rejoice together with his wife, while being a man who not only experiences, but also solves problems as they arise. The husband should begin to get upset with his pregnant mate, and then do everything that such a reason for her experiences that have occurred.
