To know the reason
Man begins to seek love and affection on the side, if the family home does not bring him the desired comfort, if the relationship with his wife had lost the bright colors, and he lives with her under the same roof just for the kids or just out of habit. Reasons for leaving "the left" can be a great many, mainly their basis lies in the lack of understanding and unwillingness to listen to their partner. For example, a man may for a long time not to make a monotonous intimate life, and in a moment he will want to bring to life your secret fantasies, but with another woman.
It often happens that the representatives of the stronger sex are afraid to loosen up in front of their wives, to admit that they would like to try something new in sex life. A man is experiencing constant dissatisfaction in sexual terms, for example, if a woman is very tired at work and constantly restricts him in the intima. It is important to remember that the basis of any marriage is respect, therefore, to neglect the needs of the partner is simply unacceptable.
To dilute the relationship with bright colors
If the husband wants another girl, then you need to prove him wrong, because his wife less attractive and ready for sexual games. To spice up the love life, you can make your loved unplanned romantic evening with a spicy surprise. The best option will be revealing lingerie or intimate various attributes that are important to for men it was a complete surprise.
To add bright colors in sex life and get a lot of unforgettable experiences will help the sex in unusual place, the main thing is not to overreact. Such details will help to prove to the man that he is still interested in wife sexually, and she is ready to experiment. When the representative of the stronger sex feel that in his family life there's still a lot of unexplored loopholes, he automatically lost the desire to search for the girl on the side.
To end the relationship
If a man shows no interest to his wife, despite all her efforts, and shows interest in a new relationship – better to let him go. There are people who systematically unfaithful, who do not like long-term relationship with one sexual partner. In this case, it is pointless to try to diversify the intimate life, because if one worth, a representative of the stronger sex immediately change your course to the left." If the husband wants another girl – it is better to give him that opportunity, but this time to look for a faithful and reliable companion on the shoulder which you can rely in any situation.
Advice 2: How to tell the man that his affection don't excite
What to do if husband is not good enough in terms of foreplay
"Not exciting prelude to sex" or "do not excite me affection husband" - a frequent claim of the girls, which they share in conversations with friends. But how to tell your partner about it? After all, it is important not only honesty, but also sensitivity to similar conversation not to trigger the development of male complexes or may trigger thoughts about your frigidity (for others, it didn't complain).
Try before another night of love not to wait for action from partner, and take the initiative in their hands. If you don't like something (the rapid penetration of the fingers into the vagina instead of a gentle stimulation of the clitoris or dry and stingy kisses instead of passionate kisses), direct the actions of the husband in the right direction, accompanying their moans showing that you are really good (better than before).
If a man brings foreplay to a minimum, starting to have sex at the first hint of grease, tell me what you dream about erotic massage and how you would like to extend a tactile pleasure that go beyond sex. Create appropriate atmosphere – dim lights or candles, scented oils that the man will RUB you. A great option is foreplay in the bath with foam and warm water relaxes, the rush will not want, foreplay renewed itself, bringing pleasure to both partners.
What should I do if my husband does not like foreplay?
This is another question that you can ask women. Are you sure that he really doesn't like? Perhaps, nobody said that he's doing something wrong, and a quick transition to sex a standard practice (and in past relationships, and in the present). The way out of the situation again lies in the frankness, but with a pinch of cunning. You can not say explicitly that the time allotted by the husband to the excitation process, you are sorely lacking to start. Instead, ask a loved one go through all your erogenous zones (but they are not limited only to the clitoris or labia). Tell me how you are turned on touching the Breasts or inner thighs, biting earlobes, neck kissing – a lot of options. Affection husband encourage your moans (genuine, without hypocrisy or replay) to see how easy it is to drive you crazy with a simple touch, and repeated the exercise in the future.
How to get husband oral sex
If a husband likes oral sex, do not hesitate to ask him to give you pleasure this way. In the intimate life of the complexes is not the place, do not be afraid to ask to stimulate the clitoris language, if you like – no shame in oral foreplay no, because it is another way to have fun, to experience orgasm and to achieve harmony in all aspects of the relationship, including sex life. Many men like to give pleasure to the language, but often stiffness women at this point, all the spoils, and the partner tries to quickly jump directly to the traditional sexual act.
The main thing – not to keep it all to myself, and to speak with loved ones, to hint to him that you don't like what is missing. Do not berate, do not get angry, do not make claims that can provoke the complexes and the rejection of intimate relationships. Do not expect that everything will change for the better in itself, proceed to next night to make a memorable, not complaining that affection of the husband does not excite and does not turn.