Mutual feelings - it's simple
The first option is positive. When the feelings are mutual, you can respond to the recognition of the brand symmetrically. This may be one of the most beautiful moments of life - the emotions burst out, turning words. Don't try to talk about feelings is difficult, speak from the heart.
A difficult situation
The second option is not so great. He declares his love with a guy(or girl) that you have similar feelings do not cherish. This is a very awkward, difficult moment – hear the confession, but I don't know how to respond, so as not to offend or not to offend this person. Take your time, don't reply automatically, but don't give false hope.
If you are unsure, the answer is a definitive rejection or acceptance. Very difficult then to abandon such words.
If the recognition came suddenly, just tell me what you before thought of such a scenario, can't understand my emotions need time. Can, of course, the answer is a categorical failure, but that is likely to put the kibosh on any further (not even romantic) relationships with lovers.
Unfortunately, there is always the possibility that the unlucky in love decides to take revenge on you to resolve the situation with unrequited love. Even if this idea seems absurd, do not dump it from the accounts is that sometimes people behave inappropriately. So you need to answer as gently as possible, not allowing the man to rely in the future on a positive answer.
Sometimes completely disagreeable person, you do more do not want to see, decides to inform you about feelings. It is not necessary to Express your negative feelings about this person. Tell me you're not experiencing reciprocal feelings and will not experience in the future. This step will help to get rid of unwanted admirer.
As a response to the recognition, if you asked for time to think, can write a letter. So to structure thoughts and emotions a lot easier.
There is a third, intermediate option – maybe you are not sure about the senses, it may seem that you feel weak, like love emotions. Then it is fair to say about it. Do straight talk is a panacea in a difficult situation. You need to explain to the person why you doubt the emotions, clarify the circumstances that make it difficult feelings. Don't be afraid to offend those interested in you the person, telling him the truth about emotions. If you important to him, he will be able to discuss the situation and understand it.