Will receive a blessing. Care in the monastery is perceived by many lay people as an escape from real life. Young handsome man in ecclesiastical garb seems unhappy lost soul, longing for light Lord. In fact, it is not. The priest, who blesses to care in a monastery, as a rule, quite a long time eyeing who came to him, trying to understand the true purpose of the solution. Having received the blessing, the future a novice can move forward on the way to Church. If the priest decides that you are not ready for such changes in their lives, should give.
Go to the monastery as a novice. The Confessor will advise what the monastery should go. With his blessing you need to speak with the Dean, that allowed you to become a novice. The probation includes the convent life, work, prayer, fasting, Bible study and other classes. This period can last up to 5-10 years, and sometimes, the novice this period changes his mind and returns to the world. Often initially, the person is invited to become a staff, i.e. an assistant in the work, and then novice.
Take vows. Tonsure is a rite of passage with the monks. There are three successive degrees of monks: the rassophore monk (vows of a novice) is a preparatory degree to the adoption of a minor schema; and the monk of the small schema is taking a vow of chastity, nestyazhatelstva and obedience, a monk of the great schema or angelic form (schema-monk) takes a vow of renunciation of all worldly things. Tonsure is a symbolic action which indicates that the person will henceforth serve only the Lord. In the monastery he can make only the Abbot. Of course, the novice can become a monk only if he received a blessing from the priest, when he convinced his intentions and humility.
Rastrigina is the eruption of the Church of San. Possible voluntary rastrigina and by decree of the Church. After this ceremony, the monk returned in the condition it was in before the taking of Holy orders.
The monk need to get prepared long before: eat simple foods, do not smoke, drink alcohol, do not backbite, often to pray and confess. All this will make life easier for entering the monkhood let the boy or man.
Advice 2 : How to go to the monastery
Have a care in the monastery can only be one reason – a desire to serve God. "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him denies himself, take up his cross and followeth Me," says Jesus in Scripture. Neither the desire to escape from life's mishaps or financial difficulties cannot be the reason for voluntary withdrawal in the monastery.
It is important to understand that the monasteries have strict enough and demanding the execution of the Charter, to follow which is not easy. In addition, true Ministry requires complete renunciation. Well think about the words "full-denial", and before you make that decision, you should carefully listen to their feelings and appreciate the meaning of this step. If you suspect that you are insincere and insufficiently diligent, the Abbot (or abbess if the monastery is female) might find you are not ready to serve.
The laity in order to go to the monasteryto get the blessing from the priest. If you are an experienced Christian, attend Church regularly, I have long been a spiritual father, and he believes that you are ready to serve, then to him you will be easy. If you are in the very beginning, and religious experiences you do not yet have, this may take some time. The more sincere your desire and rather than you follow the advice of the spiritual father, the faster you get it.
There is another way. It is neither more complex nor longer – much depends on the circumstances. You need to come to the monastery and ask for blessings from the Abbot (abbess) to become workers. In most cases, people receive such a blessing, even if they are not baptized or even infidels. Novice takes some part in the divine service, the rest of the time working in a range of activities. The money he gets, he is provided with only accommodation and food, but if he shows his sincerity and diligence, it may well become one of the novices.
Advice 3 : How to go to monks
It often happens that a person thinking about life in the monastery. Does it happen because of some life difficulties or deep faith guides the person closer to God, the path of a monk is the same for all.
Get ready for that life of the monk-man complex and difficult in different aspects. You will have to give up most of the benefits of civilization and to resist various temptations.
Visit the temple and consult with the priest. Well, if you have a Confessor – i.e. your personal spiritual guide who can give you good advice, will determine the extent of your willingness to serve God.
Trains on the monasteries if time permits, meet and talk with the father-Abbot (Abbot of the monastery). From your conversation, he concluded, are you ready for the monastic life, whether you have obstacles to tonsure. For example, you can't go to the monastery without the blessing of the parent (if parents are alive) or if you are married and you have minor children, even if the spouse you let go. If the Abbot will see that the desire firmly, and there are no obstacles to the departure from the secular world, you will stay in the monastery as a novice.
Live in the monastery as a novice, i.e. the person helping the monks in their work. In addition, you will incur various vows of obedience. Monastic rules for the staff are not very strict. This is largely people external to the monastery. You will require the abandonment of bad habits, improper speech, and the discipline in performing job duties. On Sundays you will have to attend worship and communion regularly. If you overcome this stage, you will be transferred to novices.
Take probation if life in the monastery as a novice didn't sway your desire to become a monk. A novice is a person accepted into the brotherhood, but has not yet become a monk. Being a novice, you will pass a variety of tests – monastic art. Typically, the duration of poslechnete is 3 years, but the period can be both increased and reduced. Clothing of the novice is the cassock, skufia and belt. If you violate any of monastic rules or soak tests, you are referred to from the monastery and free from obedience.
Take vows as a monk, if you have gone the way of the novice, and novice and has not wavered in his desire to give his life to the service of God. You should also be ready to give three wishes to the moral perfection: celibacy, obedience and poverty. Take seriously the promises, think about their meaning: virginity – the preservation of the great purity, obedience, honoring each of the brothers better and above themselves, poverty is good-natured endurance of thirst, starvation, and brutal tightness.
Advice 4 : Where to leave the monastery
Traveling around the world, people can not only look at the lives of different people, but to try it for themselves. To be aboriginal, live in the original dwelling. To feel like a noble person, hire a castle. Well, to avoid the Madding crowd will help the monasteries.
Have long been celebrities took fashion from time to time to live in the monastery, founded in the late fifth century, the Shaolin temple. Not only people involved in martial arts, come here, but those who want to learn Zen Buddhism. But this is not a private place, and now crowds of tourists bring the hustle and bustle on the territory of the ancient monastery, there are many gift-gun shops. But in China, a lot of "fighting" monasteries are not popular, but to preserve the peace and quiet, which are sometimes so necessary.In Korea you too can live in a Buddhist monastery. You will need to master the simplest rules of conduct in such places of worship. Then you will be acquainted with the everyday life of the inhabitants of the monastery, will talk about the shrines and the treasures that are stored here. You must remember a few basic rules: walk only in clean clothes, do not use bright makeup, do not smoke, do not drink alcoholic beverages during worship not to shout, to run, to talk to anyone. In these monasteries you can spend the day or a long course of meditation, martial arts, making lanterns and prayer beads. Also you can learn to cook dishes or to hold a traditional tea ceremony.Many Catholic convents have pages on the Internet, where you can book a room in the monastery. The Russians often visit and live in monasteries in the Holy Land in Israel, in Orthodox countries: Greece, Montenegro and Bulgaria. In Russia you too can live in the monastery. Some monasteries allow you to get free, but in extremely Spartan conditions. Unlike the Buddhist, Orthodox monasteries have not yet become a tourist "trails". You have to become "workers", that is, to thoroughly work on the monastery. But first get the blessing of the Abbot of the monastery selected. And, already settled in the monastery, any action will need to seek blessing. To obstruct and not to let the worker in most monasteries will not, because working hands are always needed. Policies nearly the same as in all the monasteries of the world: behave modestly and decently, not to go "with its Charter". You can live in the monastery and couples (only married in Church), they are not separate, but everything will depend on conditions and opportunities of the institution. "Workers" stay and eat for free at the monastery, they participate in Church services and are obeying, that is working in the garden and the garden, cook and go to the store, help in the repair and restoration of buildings.