How to work with injuries of childhood

Adults sometimes are not even aware that the roots of the internal conflict inherent in the deep childhood. Sometimes trying to understand the reasons for children's troubles helps to resolve many mental issues even in advanced age.

Instruction

1. Maybe someone can tell about his childhood that it was quite a serene time, but people not so much. The ridicule of their peers, deception, injustice and frustration, divorce of parents, loss of a loved one - this long list of trials that life brings, even in an immature age. Childhood traumas do not always remain in the memory of man. Decades not thinking about the offense or the mountain back, he has no idea how much this emotional experience is reflected in personality and character, and how deeply stored in the subconscious. To get rid of the burden of the past is not easy, it is available only to those who are willing to change, openly and honestly to understand the causes and consequences of emotional wounds sustained in childhood.
2. To help yourself in a situation when the events of a difficult childhood continue to affect behavior in adult life a person can only himself. This requires as detailed as possible to remember an event, to analyze the reasons that led to it, and to understand why this injury is so ingrained in the subconscious. Most likely, the problem is considered from the point of view of a Mature and experienced man, will be insignificant, and the burden will be removed from the soul. A wound that never heals from the hurt caused in childhood may be delayed, if you sincerely, from the heart to forgive the offender. Lack of love of parents can be overcome, giving more tenderness to their children. Injustice upon closer examination it may be selfishness, and the ridicule of their peers - the usual nonsense.
3. Sometimes even such things as denial of buying new toys or going to the circus, remain in the subconscious Unforgiven offense. Psychologists recommend in any age, afford what was denied in childhood. The acquisition of clockwork toy cars or dolls for themselves and not to the children laugh and cheer you up, and hurt children will disappear by itself. Such work with his own subconscious will help get rid of complexes, to overcome self-doubt and more open to perceive reality. Trauma childhood will cease to dominate and distort behaviour.
4. There are special trainings and courses conducted by experts, where you can get help and get rid of childhood traumas and fears. If work does not help to improve health, we should not postpone a visit to the professionals who will be able to properly study the situation and provide effective assistance.