How to behave if the friend is a lesbian

When people are dealing for a long time, changes in one often perceived in bayonets. A friend who was so familiar and predictable, suddenly began to behave differently. It is perplexing, it is not entirely clear how to deal with it. Can help you to understand friendly relationship direct conversation.

The girlfriend became a lesbian - do I need to stop communicating

Every year attitude towards people who practice gay sex, becoming more loyal. Many of them speak openly about their preferences, do not hesitate to cause a negative reaction from others. They defend their choice, don't want to shift, hiding their preferences. Girl, he is smitten with love for the beautiful ladies, talk openly about it to friends and girlfriends. And some of them perceive this information is quite aggressive. While there is nothing particularly wrong with it. Everyone is free to make a choice who to let into her bed. Friendship sexual relations are not reflected. Behavior with relatives of such a person often remains the same.

Not all lesbians look like men and behave like men. Many of them look like normal girls. In the arms of women often pushes their disappointment in men.

To understand how to behave with a girlfriend that became a lesbian, we need to talk openly with her. To clarify how serious her new passion and the feelings she is now experiencing old friends. If she answers that the attitude is not changed, the friendship has remained important to her, she wants to pursue her, you can be sure. It is unlikely that the friend will suddenly begin to make hints, offering to expand the boundaries of communication. But in this case it is better to warn in advance that you are not going to change the traditional orientation. Tell me that you can be friends as before only in case if it is not to weave a sexual subtext. Most likely, this conversation will solve all the issues between you will not remain unsaid, friendship will be the same as before.

Do not scold a friend because she changed her attitude. Remember that it's her life and her choice. Maybe she needed this experience to understand what she really wants.

How to deal with friend-lesbian

People who took the decision not to hide from others their otherness, very often get lonely. Friends turn away from them, cannot accept their new identity. The reasons for this are very few. The fact that a person sincerely says that he loves evidence of his honesty towards yourself and your family. And don't immediately reject it. On the contrary, if a friend has discovered her secret, it should be supported. At least those that behave with her like before, not thinking about non-traditional tendencies. She will appreciate simple human support in this difficult period of rethinking his life.