Always nice to watch couples who have lived together for decades and managed to keep the love, understanding and not angry with each other, despite all the difficulties that they have experienced. What is the secret of such a relationship?
First thing you need to learn to see "pain" around to draw attention to the misery and sorrow of people around you. How does this help the relationship. Easy. You will learn to appreciate what you have around, and not to squander it. It is also important to have a common life program, common goals, common values, and because of all this and sharing happiness.
Watch one direction on life is simply necessary criterion of a strong relationship. If you look in different directions, and live will be every man for himself, and, moreover, to realize common dreams and goals, you simply will not succeed. It is very important in any relationship, first of all, to be a better friend to your partner. That he had no desire to run and share their problems and secrets with someone else, that will slowly but surely destroy your Union.
No less important criterion in the relationship is respect. Unfortunately, without it the relationship fails very quickly. For any man to see the qualities, actions and so forth, causing the pride and respect is a huge boost for the values of these relations. Always remember that and strive for it.
Learning to compromise and adapt to your partner will keep the relationship on track. And does not considered these people "henpecked" or "flabby". On the contrary, it says about showing love and care to your loved one. Which can not be measured the opposite side. To survive all the difficulties and problems always need together, helping and supporting each other. This strengthens the relationship and makes people closer.
Very important in any Alliance with common interests or at least common topics of conversation. Partners who don't have anything to talk about together for a long time is not delayed. You should always seek compromises and try to find something that is interesting to both of you. And, of course, it is important to know your partner a hundred percent. Whatever aspects of life they may concern. Understanding these simple things will help you build long-term, stable and real relationship and to live many years in perfect harmony!