What to do if cheated on her husband
Female infidelity is perceived by society more harshly than men. This perception is rooted in the psychological characteristics of personality. Man by nature is polygamous, so his cheating is only a manifestation of the instinct of the hunter. The woman is monogamous and is configured to select a single partner to create a strong family. In modern society, female infidelity is no surprise, it has become the norm of public morality. After infidelity, you are in a depressed spirit, I feel to blame. However, we can still fix this.
Find the cause of infidelity
No woman will change just like that. There must be a reason of such behavior on her part. Especially if it's family and long relationship. First, it is important to stay calm and analyze the situation from an objective point of view. No need to tell about your affair even the closest friend. Remember what you've experienced the feeling, when she decided to change her husband. What motivated you? If it was negative emotions associated with stressful relations in the family, then you understand that you made a mistake and need to fix it. Second, analyze the behavior of a spouse in relation to you as a woman. Perhaps sexual fervor has subsided, and you are tired from each other. In this case, it is better to try to diversify sexual life by any means.
It so happens that the husband crosses the line of humiliation and abuse towards his wife. Here is no need to think, what to do if changed to such a person. This is a normal psychological reaction to a negative impact from the side. Way – to run from such men. The farther the better. However, if you still think that you made a fatal mistake, you need to fix it. It will take time and effort.
How to fix
A woman after infidelity for a long time decides to speak to her husband or not about what happened. In this issue you need to be very careful, as only a strong loving man can forgive adultery, but not the fact. It is better to lurk for a while and observe the behavior of a spouse. It is not necessary to show how much you love and care. This strange behavior can come across different thoughts. Better behave with my husband, as always. Time will pass and you will understand what to do next.
If you are tormented by the fact that her husband changed, then sooner or later you admit it. Such is the female nature. After this recognition reaction men can be very different, from aggression to calmness. You just need to collect all will in a fist and to withstand counter-pressure. Then leave your husband alone with your thoughts. The man needs more time to sort out. You need to be patient, if you love your spouse. When it will analyze everything it will take a positive or negative decision in your direction. Sometimes a man can forgive a woman infidelity, but that would be another level of relations. So ten times think before to change, so as to destroy, to build - on the contrary.