Advice 2 : How to bury a man
- Clothesin which a man died, it is desirable to burn. Don't need anyone to give. If the relatives of the deceased want to keep it in memory, then in any case should not be worn for forty days.
- It is better to wash the deceased at the same hour when he died.
- To bury a person need new clothes or at least clean.
- Never wear clothes with no remnants of blood or sweat of a dead man.
- If the deceased during the life asked to be buried in a particular dress, his request to be performed.
- If the dead man was a soldier, sure to put him in a military uniform.
- On top of the dead man is usually offered a white blanket. On the forehead you need to put a crown depicting Jesus Christ, the virgin and John the Forerunner. The crown must be written prayer in the old Slavonic language. In the hands of the deceased is given an icon or a cross.
- If the family of the deceased have the opportunity to invite a priest, it should be implemented. If not, then you need to call the special people involved in the reading of the Psalms and the worship service. Some driven by the deceased to the funeral in temple.
- On the coffin of the deceased placed four candles, and near the body – a glass of water, a small piece of bread and a saucer of millet.
- Blood relatives should not wash the floor in the room where there was a coffin.
- Native should not go in front of the coffin with wreaths and wine.
- At the cemetery, it is customary to kiss the dead man in the crown that lies on his forehead and hands. From the grave definitely need to pick up flowers and icon.
- If the dead man was a watch or some other jewelry, remove them in any case impossible.
- In front of the boarded-up cover, the face of the dead man's robe. The coffin is usually lowered into the grave on the towels, which are then handed out to people.
- The coffin should be lowered so that the deceased was lying with head to the East. Grave throws a few coins, and then land. Her first throw relatives.
After the funeral need to be sure to remember the dead. To do this, the family of the deceased arranges a memorial meal. Is it usually in the house where the deceased lived. On the table is kutya and pancakes with butter. You must also first and second courses. The Wake is also cooked jelly. Alcohol, according to tradition, on the memorial table is prohibited.
Advice 3 : What to do with things of the dead
Advice 4 : What you need for a funeral
Relatives of the deceased person will have to gather my thoughts and determine what you need to do first. The most important is to identify space for future graves. Usually these issues are engaged in ritual services. If a relative died at home, you need to take to the hospital a certificate of death. If outside the house, the body sent to the morgue. In this case, and the certificate is issued in the morgue.
You need to have a police officer who must make the report of the examination of the body. You need to obtain a death certificate. Then have a visit to the ritual of the organization where you ordered everything you need for the funeral. The first is the coffin, which will be produced based on the height and weight of the deceased. Second – wreaths with ribbons, they can be made of fresh or artificial flowers. There are candles, towels and other necessary supplies. As for the monument, it is recommended to first apply for a temporary and only a year or permanent. The fact that shrinkage of the earth at the burial site is just over one year.
If a relative was baptized, it is necessary to order the service in the Church and invite the priest to the funeral ceremony. A priest should talk about how to comply with all Church tradition and not make a mistake. It is much more important than hanging loop mirrors and other such legends.
After this funeral, the relatives of the deceased arrange the funeral. The Wake can come by all who knew the deceased. Usually served soup, fish cakes, buckwheat. Put on the table the pancakes with honey and kutya, is served on the third-compote. Funeral you need to consider in advance; or apply to a dining room or cafeteria, or ask distant relatives and friends to help organise a funeral lunch at home.
Advice 5 : How to dress the deceased
Advice 6 : How to dress the deceased
Advice 7 : How to behave when the dead man in the house
Knowledge is power
The death is relatively sudden, because in most cases it is not expected. When this happens, many people are often angry and lost, not expecting this turn of events. It is therefore important to know beforehand about some of the principles and norms of behavior, when the house is deceased, so as not to exacerbate the already unenviable position of his friends and relatives.
It is believed that the person tying the knots in the rags at the time, when the house carried the coffin with the deceased, leads to the family of the deceased damage!
How to behave in the house with the deceased
In the house where is deceased, it is not necessary to talk loudly and, especially, to laugh.
Relatives of the deceased should be all the mirrors, since the mirror is another portal where you can get lost the soul of the deceased, being at this time in the house. In principle, this is the more common explanation: you should close the mirror only to it do not disturb anyone. Besides, it's not pleasant, in the mirror when the coffin with the deceased.
Mourning begins immediately after death and is accompanied by robes dark or black tones. You should not wear this clothes in bright colors. Each for himself determines what he needs to be in a state of mourning. Orthodox Christians this time has no clear boundaries.
Being in the house with the deceased, it is necessary to remove all silver jewelry and things. If the deceased was a believer, then his neck should wear a cross.
Should not be placed near the portrait of the deceased a glass of water (or vodka), covered with a piece of bread. According to legend, this Cup will never come to the soul of the deceased, and will come only the demons.
Friends of the deceased should wash his body only in the daytime. The water which was washing, to pour in a specially dug hole in the place where the people don't go.
While the deceased is in the house, no need to do the Laundry. This is considered a bad omen. Also you should not allow someone to sit on the bed of the dead until the coffin is in the house.
If someone is afraid to be in the house together with the deceased, he should be encouraged to overcome your fear, holding for a time by the feet of the deceased.
All the men that came to say goodbye to the deceased, it is necessary before entering the house to remove their hats.
The coffin with the deceased, as well as the lid of a coffin you can't take friends of the deceased. It is believed that in this way you can trigger another grief in the family.
Advice 8 : Is it possible to wear the clothes of a deceased person
Is it possible to wear clothes of the deceased?
Many of the people determines the degree of influence of those or other objects and things of their dead relatives. It all depends entirely on the psychological characteristics of man, his personal beliefs and his relationship to his past.
For example, spiritually mundane people can refer to things of the deceased is quite calm, which will allow them to throw them away without any compunction or joy to wear. This is largely characterized by complete optimists.
According to the priest Andrey Lorgus, the garments of the deceased can and should wear. In addition, father Andrew believes that among Orthodox Christians there is a General custom of giving away things of the deceased in the so-called the sight of his soul.
Those who believe in using the things of the deceased in the succession of generations and connection times or epochs do not want to get rid of them, but to put on too, not going to risk it. For such people, these things will be, rather, a form of psychological support than personal items of clothing.
The third group of persons as the possessions of the deceased relative, on the contrary, will be a burden to you, as without end be reminded of it. In the end, it will trigger the desire to get rid of them.
People and prejudice
As they say, many people have many opinions. Everyone sees something different. However, regardless of human beliefs, in this situation, there are some, so to speak, barely visible principles.
Behind the scenes it is believed that wearing such things is possible, but under one condition: if they did not die. Because people can't go to the other world in all of its garments at the same time, this situation is greatly simplified. According to this superstition, to burn should be exactly that clothes in which the deceased, while still alive, met the last day of his life.
Another priest – Archpriest Alexander Ilyashenko believes that it is not necessary to doubt, whether you wear the clothes of the deceased , or not wear. The priest urges not to give in to superstition and to pray for the soul of the deceased rested.
Those who are going to get rid of all the belongings of the deceased regardless of the superstitions have to do it as gently as possible, so as not to offend their host. This means that we should not just throw the clothes in a landfill. Not worth it and bury it in the ground. You just have to burn the robes.
Some prefer to get rid of all the garments of the deceased family member, giving them to the Church. And there is nothing to be ashamed of. You can also distribute things to needy people.
Advice 9 : How to conduct funerals and memorials
Advice 10 : Why not to wear clothes of a deceased person
Things of dead people are stored energy
It is considered that things that the deceased often used in life, keep his energy. Known cases where watches stop at the moment of death, after the funeral, broken appliances, clothing things acquire a peculiar smell, which is simply impossible to get rid of. This is due to the fact that the items of the deceased begins to accumulate the necropolis, i.e. the energy of death, which reflects its current state – the death of the physical body. All the possessions of the deceased, endowed with a deadly power, can cause great harm to people who are starting to use them, but positive impacts also do not have. Simply put, things the deceased did not bring good luck.
To give the clothes of a deceased relative
You can give away things a deceased relative strangers who did not know the deceased in life. It is desirable to do it not earlier than the fortieth day after death. It is after this time, the relationship between the soul and the objects of earthly life begins to disappear. To strangers, the energy of death would not have such a strong impact, but close relatives and friends it can be even worse.
Should be particularly careful with things made of natural materials – they are best able to absorb the energy of a deceased person.
What to do with jewelry
Of course, nobody is going to give, and, especially to throw away expensive jewelry that remained after the death of a relative. However, be aware that gold and silver for a long time is able to store information and human energy. By the way, it basically refers to the ornaments that were on the deceased at the time of his death. If still alive, the grandmother gave you a ring that is inherited in your family, then harm it will not bring. You can safely wear it without fear of negative consequences.
If you still want to wear jewelry that was on the deceased at the time of death, it is best to wipe them with Holy water as much as possible to neutralize the negative energy.
How to remove the negative field from the clothes of a deceased relative
There is a method that helps to neutralize the negative energy of a deceased person, remaining on his clothes. Psychics advise to soak the clothing of the deceased in salt water for a few hours and then rinse it well, dry it thoroughly and be sure to iron.
However, this method is effective not in all cases. Sometimes a deceased relative energy is so strong that none of the rituals are not able to remove it.