How it all began
In Russia, before you get married, the future groom or bride had to undergo the rite of courtship.
Usually marriage came to the house where the girl lived, the parents of the young man or the young man. The process contained a lot of different nuances and beliefs which are unquestioningly followed the matchmakers for successful completion of the "deal".
One of these beliefs was expressed in the following: the matchmaker was supposed to start a conversation on the alleged abstract theme, hinting at the purpose of your visit. Very often a young guy and a girl were compared to animals. One of these comparisons just and contained an analogy of a girl with a chick.
SWAT told the story about looking for a chick that supposedly got lost and stuck to the house of girl's parents. And then asked: would the calf to move into his house. This meant that the bride asked to marry.
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"Broad" and "chick" is called in the main young girls. Women at older ages is not the case.
Hard to believe that a similar analogy could be preserved to modern days. But again on the "pussy" they say almost everywhere, and no man falls into a stupor, hearing the word, so the analogy really had a solid Foundation.
Chick literally called young cow, not yet had calves. This also is attributed to not yet saggy udder, which, of course, represents the Breasts of a young girl.
Today "chick" - not a compliment to the girl. As the word became mostly a negative connotation, recall, and other signs of Chicks: stupid, constantly chewing young cow.
What achieve men?
About what is the meaning of lay men in the definition of "Chicks" relative to girls, we can talk endlessly.
First, men, especially young men, can understand. Calling girls Chicks, they try to assert themselves. So the guy is trying to show his disregard and independence. This is particularly important in the transition to adulthood.
In the modern Russian language there are neologisms based on the figurative meaning of the word "chick". Usually, neologisms arise on the basis of the origin of subcultures. For example, "amtelco", "gopotelka", etc.
In any case, when a man calls a girl a "chick", it means that there are no serious intentions to it has not. Or just unsuccessfully trying to hide these intentions.
But it is necessary to distinguish between when a man is joking, and when he's just indifferent. If the guy laughed and affectionately calls you "his girl", offended, of course, not worth it. If you find it too unpleasant to listen to, I immediately tell him about it and not hoard offense inside. Miscommunications lead to quarrels, and quarrels to discord in the relationship.
Advice 2: Why does a man not say kind words
The male mind is not as the female. Guys can keep a low profile, despite the fact that experiencing the girl very sincere. If a man tells you about his love, does not mean that it is not.
The first reason why the man is giving you a gentle and soft words, lies in its inferiority complex that may occur as a result of not quite the right education. Perhaps the family of your young person was not accepted to openly Express their love and emotions, so the man would keep a low profile in relation to its second half. If you try to instill in him a positive attitude towards compliments, most likely, it will not give you the desired result. With such problem it is better to go to a psychologist.
If your man just doesn't like to talk a lot, and is notorious silent, hardly you will wait on him gentle words and tenderness. To change the character of a person, you can not, therefore, if you do not like this guy, change it to more talkative, just remember that the secret to happiness lies not in the compliments.
Another reason for the lack of gentle and loving words from your beloved representative of the stronger sex is in his lack of feelings for you. Previously, he was gentle and considerate, but now has become rigid, most likely, love or not, or it's gone. When people no sincerity, passion and togetherness, affectionate words and compliments from men can be expected. He won't say something just to please you because to do it is absolutely do not want. Talk to your lover and ask, not cool if his feelings for you. Maybe he will say that in fact your feelings are in vain, and his apparent indifference due to the many problems at work or some other factors. Do not rush to destroy the relationship as you can because of the stupidity of losing a decent man.
Think about what the absence of sweet words can be caused by some negative events of the past. Maybe your young man once met a girl, tried to be gentle and tender with her, showered her with compliments, and she mocked him, taking the gentleness for weakness. Such behavior could provoke the emergence of new complexes and a dislike of anxious words. Explain to your man that you are missing the warm emotions and the banal compliments. Tell me you won't laugh at his feelings, and, conversely, will appreciate this positive impulse and manifestation of the delicate and sincere love.