Understand his feelings. Sometimes it is very simple, especially if you waited a long time for the cherished phrase from a loved one. Then you can happily say "I love you too" and hug. Original answer "I love you" in other languages. Look online or in the dictionary, how to pronounce this phrase and memorize.
But if you don't feel the same, do not lie, avoid answering, or otherwise confuse love with a person. To answer "I love you" without feeling the same, in different ways. Do it carefully and gently.
Tell me the truth. No need to invent high-sounding words, quite simple and clear answer: "sorry, I don't have to you such feelings, I'm sorry." If you like the other person, will report it with the words "I love another, I'm sorry." So you put in the relationship, does not leave the person in limbo and do not spoil impression about themselves.
Keep silent. This tactic should be used in a pinch if you don't know how to respond to a Declaration of love. Complete silence will create a tense atmosphere, so it will be better if you can take the conversation to another topic. A few seconds shut up, letting him know that you heard the question, and then tell me about something else.
Do not offer to remain friends. Such a simple phrase puts a person in an uncomfortable position – he was rejected, but not alienate, give hope to be there. And to be in the role of a friend, loved one difficult, and will not work from these people good friends.
Do not ridicule the other person's feelings. To say those three words was hard, so the humor is misplaced. To translate such a sensitive topic into a joke, it requires great skill and tact. If you do not feel this ability, it is better not to try.
You can't tell on the recognition of the familiar. If you do not reciprocate, it is better to pretend that it never happened. The man is not easy to survive your failure, and if everyone will gossip and laugh at it, it will be very unpleasant.
If you can't understand their feelings, ask for time to think. "That's nice, but so unexpected. Give me time to understand myself." After that, understand yourself, understand, feel, and respond. Do not tighten the conversation, not to torment a man in love.
If the feeling's not mutual
But if you don't feel the same, do not lie, avoid answering, or otherwise confuse love with a person. To answer "I love you" without feeling the same, in different ways. Do it carefully and gently.
Tell me the truth. No need to invent high-sounding words, quite simple and clear answer: "sorry, I don't have to you such feelings, I'm sorry." If you like the other person, will report it with the words "I love another, I'm sorry." So you put in the relationship, does not leave the person in limbo and do not spoil impression about themselves.
Keep silent. This tactic should be used in a pinch if you don't know how to respond to a Declaration of love. Complete silence will create a tense atmosphere, so it will be better if you can take the conversation to another topic. A few seconds shut up, letting him know that you heard the question, and then tell me about something else.
What not to do in response to "I love you"?
Do not offer to remain friends. Such a simple phrase puts a person in an uncomfortable position – he was rejected, but not alienate, give hope to be there. And to be in the role of a friend, loved one difficult, and will not work from these people good friends.
Do not ridicule the other person's feelings. To say those three words was hard, so the humor is misplaced. To translate such a sensitive topic into a joke, it requires great skill and tact. If you do not feel this ability, it is better not to try.
You can't tell on the recognition of the familiar. If you do not reciprocate, it is better to pretend that it never happened. The man is not easy to survive your failure, and if everyone will gossip and laugh at it, it will be very unpleasant.
If you can't understand their feelings, ask for time to think. "That's nice, but so unexpected. Give me time to understand myself." After that, understand yourself, understand, feel, and respond. Do not tighten the conversation, not to torment a man in love.