To give or not to give
When a guy after the first meeting or the first meeting (e.g. through social networks) immediately asks for phone number, serious girls perceive this gesture as excessive aggressiveness of boys, and often denied, considering that this solution too fast.
After research it became clear that phone numbers more readily and faster exchange young couples than older couples. In addition, studies have also shown that boys make decisions regarding the next meeting with a girl for the first 15 minutes of acquaintance, while women require much more time. Many ladies believe that if a man asked for her phone number, he became interested in it. This opinion is often erroneous. Modern men may ask for your number just in case.
If you feel sympathy for the opposite sex, feel free to exchange phone numbers. However, allegedly do it with great reluctance. Guys don't like too available girls. Even if you are crazy about a new acquaintance, remember that the first impression is sometimes wrong. Do not immerse in euphoria and control the situation. To best protect yourself, it is recommended in the first time to meet in a public place in the daytime.
How to be a girl, if the guy liked it though
If you seriously like a guy follow randomly thrown phrases during the conversation, which can hurt your companion. Unexpected observations, dissatisfaction, make complaints against life and health, especially in previous failed love affair may forever discourage the guy to continue friendship with you, not to mention more serious relationship.
Avoid excessive curiosity and meticulous inquiries, be sure and do not exaggerate its merits.
In the initial period of your acquaintance do not disclose "high-profile" long-term plans for the future together. This activity girls can not a joke to scare the guy.
Don't settle for an intimate encounter if you are not confident in seriousness of guy.
Allow the guy to lead your relationship and take responsibility for your further destiny.
Learn how to evaluate male behavior. Remember that the initiative should always be in the hands of men. If a woman is truly interested in man, he will find any way to meet her again, even if the long-awaited numbers from her, he did not wait.
Advice 2: How to please a guy, who is older than you
Boys Mature emotionally later girls. School girls write love poems and dream about Dating, and their peers at this time chasing a ball in a vacant lot and cut on the console. Why girls fall for older guys, they seem more Mature, intelligent and serious.
Advice for girls under 16 years of age
If you're 13, and your chosen one over more than 5 years – it is better to abandon the idea of a romantic relationship. In adolescence, even two years sounds like a lot of difference. He just doesn't see in you girl you'll be a child. But if the age difference is 3-4 years, you can try to attract his attention.
First, find out what he likes. Learn football rules and the names of the players of his favorite team if he is a football fan. Try to learn to play his favorite computer game. Ask what kind of music he listens to. In General, make it so that it was interesting to you. It is important not to overdo it. To accept any word and just play along don't. Guys like girls with their own opinions.
Second, do not try to look older than his age. 15-year-old girl with bright makeup looks stupid and vulgar. Don't try to demonstrate their "maturity" with cigarettes, beer and arguments about sex.
Third, it is not namasivaya. It is not necessary to fill up the guy's messages and attack phone calls with declarations of love. It is not necessary to guard him at the entrance, and then pretend as if accidentally passed by. In this way, only win the title of "kids, which runs for Bob".
Tips for girls 16+
If you are under 18 years old guy, who is older than you, may refuse to date you for quite natural reasons. Criminal liability for sexual abuse of minors has not been canceled. Therefore hundred times think before to start a relationship with an adult man.
Try to join his circle of communication. Through mutual friends find out where it is most often. And then arrange an "accidental" meeting at a concert of his favorite band or in the gym, where he does. Come to say Hello first, if you haven't noticed. You need to take the initiative to arouse his interest. You throw languorous glances from the corner – this corner will remain.
Learn how to flirt. Be feminine. Show him that you're not a little girl who plays with dolls. Being an adult doesn't mean to paint her lips with red lipstick and wears a blouse with a deep neckline even if you have something there to show. If you want to be a serious interest, it is better to demonstrate intelligence, and desire to grow. And do not lie about your age. Lie sooner or later will reveal, but unpleasant aftertaste remains.
Any man likes to feel smart and strong. Ask him for advice as a more experienced person. Express admiration for his talents and abilities. Do not try to emphasize the age difference, if you don't want him to treat you like a younger sister. Do not overdo it with the game in "lolita". The boy may loves the attention of young girls, but children's whims he is unlikely to want long endure.