Advice 1: How to suppress the will of a man

In the development of mankind from time to time there are people who have a higher propensity to be active, able to change the history of the society, to manage and conquer, to convince and to organize. Such people L. N. Gumilev called passionaries. A. Dugin called them "people of long will". But if they will used constructively?
How to suppress the will of a man
You will need
  • - knowledge of the structure will;
  • - knowledge of the theory of passionarity.
Developed at will to work with the passionate child. To suppress or to change the strength and direction of the will of another person will be able to the same strong-willed person. Passionaries people are born. They will actively develop without influence from the.
Teach your child to recognize the direction and means to achieve objectives. Dedication is the basis of will, but a passionate person is able to see only the final result, but does not measure the means to achieve it, so they are not always socially acceptable. A sense of purpose and it keeps the will "on a short leash".
Train your child each time you make a volitional action. He needs to think and care about other people participating in a particular event. Passionary able to organize people for a common cause, to infect them with his idea of not thinking about their interests, capabilities and desires. The people of "long will" put the idea in the head, selfishly pursuing their goal.
Enlighten the child about sexual development and the dangers of early sex life, because his will during adolescence is directed and at an early realization of their desires. To achieve the object of his passion teenager may constantly and rapidly. Explain that to restrain their impulses is more difficult, but his "will is directed to the development of the will."
Learn to take care of your health, I would warn risky situation for achieving objectives known to be dangerous. Strong-willed adolescents tend to demonstrate their will to others, not thinking about the consequences: to swim a river, climb a high tower, etc. taking Care of your body will help to suppress the unnecessary willpower.
Passionaries, or "people of long will", necessary for the society to overcome the social chaos, for the organization of active work groups. But their activities from an early age must be under the supervision of a teacher, teaching passionaries to use their will consciously.
Useful advice
The suppression of the will is advisable, if the result is destructive, and the process of achieving the result is antisocial. In all other cases the efforts may be redirected in socially meaningful activities.

Advice 2: How to recognize an unreliable person?

Errors in people adversely both in business and in family life. Charismatic, at first glance, people may be in fact unreliable, and the relationship with him is both romantic and business - can lead to large losses, moral and material. How to recognize unreliable and avoid problems?
How to recognize an unreliable person?


What is a reliable person

A reliable person, friend or partner - someone who will not disappoint your trust, will not throw in a difficult moment, share with you the joy and sorrow. He will fulfill the promises given to you, will not promise what can not do, will not throw words to the wind, will not fail and will not be substituted, and in adverse circumstances will help to get out of an unpleasant situation, sharing the responsibility with you. In other words, such a person will not disappoint your hopes. A reliable person is a great benefit, whether it is related to personal life or business issues. An unreliable partner, on the contrary - the source of many problems and disappointments. How to distinguish reliable from unreliable person?

The rule of first impressions

First impression - the most correct, psychologists say. However, unreliable people try to do everything to produce the most favorable impression exactly when they first met. Is there a view that people know everything about each other, not only can quickly transfer this information from the realm of the subconscious into the conscious plane of thought. You should trust your gut.

If you feel the slightest discomfort, try to understand why it happened, what the behavior of the interlocutor, you seemed awkward. Perhaps he is too kind, flattering? Maybe, his behavior is clearly sexual challenge? If we are talking about a romantic Dating - it is completely natural. But if we are talking about a joint business, transaction, business or project - it suggests that you are trying to "get on the hook" to use, and in the mind of your counterpart does not what he says aloud.

Than give themselves untrustworthy

Despite the fact that unreliable, but interested in you the person struggling to make a favorable impression, there is a whole system of subtle signals, which gives him away because he is not internally confident. Look closely, watch him, and you will discover a lot of interesting details that can not be concealed. The unreliability, that is, visible to the naked eye, the "crack" of the unfaithful is not so difficult, the main thing is to honestly admit what you see.

  • Pay attention to the eyes, catch his eye. Unreliable people try to look away, to look around or dropped his eyes down.
  • Another feature of the opinion unreliable: during a conversation about the important things it can withstand your opinion, but look like through you, into the void. This speaks of a stronger character, but instead openness for this habit of looking "through" the interlocutor lies the audacity and even cynicism.
  • Note how the dialogue. You have the impression that the interlocutor can't hear or see, stating your point of view? He tries to impress, as if admiring themselves and extremely concerned about the impression? It speaks of insecurities, you selfish egomaniac, and it is unlikely that your problems will ever cause him the desire to solve them together.
  • Listen carefully during the conversation, and as the man says. Perhaps you feel that you're hiding something under that topic of conversation? Your specific questions remained unanswered, but the caller turned the conversation to another topic? Looks like this person wants something from you to hide, and therefore, there are serious reasons to doubt its reliability.
  • Be careful with what intonation speaks to you the interlocutor. Subtle humiliation, awkward words that make you embarrassed, gentle barbs, the unkind irony - all this suggests that man has a "double bottom", and you have reason to doubt that his attitude towards you are kind and sincere.
  • Watch his emotions. Maybe exaggerated optimism and too bright prospects trying to trap you, to involve in relationships, which then become the source of problems? Your partner too much promises? Interrupts you? Do not rush to take him at his word. Everything that looks "too", should alert you, since it tells about probable try to "catch" you on the weaknesses and manipulate you. People talk about it, "lays Gently but firmly to bed"
  • Reverse option: the person defends himself in advance from possible expectations and illusions about him. He refers to some hidden circumstances over which he had no control, says that it is of little independent, alluding to the fact that it should not expect more than he can do. Most likely, you, or anyone, with a bunch of nasty secrets, and even the smallest promise he does not fulfill.

That suggests that before you is a reliable person

  • Reliable man will not hide his eyes, he will answer you sure open eyes, full of genuine interest.
  • In conversation he will be interested in and your circumstances, and talking about some kind of joint thing he will be similar to the person who solves the problem of addition. This is not surprising, as a joint affair for him - a reality, and it will estimate what you can do other to be useful.
  • Describing the project or drawing prospects for a common future, a reliable person expressed very simply, looks practical. The situation in the description is clear, clear and specific. Reliable people - realistic, they do not need to try to make a personal impression on you as the main thing for them is not it. Such people will not include charm, to seduce, to flirt in order to gain your attention to the person, as the main thing is for them joint business, referred to.
  • Reliable person will not miss a single question, will not miss a single nuance, because for him it is important that you clearly represented a situation that may be for you overall.
  • In talking about the joint or about the romantic prospects of a reliable person will not allow malice, will not attempt to hurt or subtly humiliate you. On the contrary, he is extremely polite, friendly, sincere. Sincerity is something that you can feel instinctive confidence in him.
  • Reliable person will not interrupt you, but rather listen to what you want to say, as in the relationship reliable people see first - mate, interested in positive results not only for themselves but also for you. In other words, a reliable partner will take care of that common cause and common future suit both of you.

Reliability needs to be mutual

Reliable is a quality of character. They say that people with common traits and attitude towards life attracted to each other. Take a look at yourself. Do you make promises? Are you able not to withdraw from the partner in difficult times and to share the responsibility? Honestly admit mistakes or looking for an opportunity to dump the responsibility on the other? Are you ready to take responsibility for their words and deeds, to fulfill its obligations?

These are all very important. Because reliability in relations should be mutual. After all, a reliable person, faced with the irresponsibility, unpredictability, cunning and unreliable, most likely, will not throw begun, but by the end - just don't want to have more business with an unreliable partner. So they are reliable people.

Advice 3: Is it possible to suppress the feeling of love

Unrequited love is a strong and pretty tragic experience. To cope with this feeling is very difficult, however, there are ways to alleviate this burden, to transform it into something else.
Psychologists believe that to suppress and deny their emotions is useless, they still find a way to get out. If you hide them from yourself, to pretend that they do not, emotions begin to gradually destroy the psyche and the body have a negative impact on all spheres of life. Therefore, from unrequited love to work, to make efforts to resolve this unfortunate situation.

To abreact

In the most unexpected way of getting rid of emotions it is the awareness and "splattering". We can say that this method is the opposite of emotional repression, but it is highly efficient, although requires some specific actions. Take a sheet of paper and write on it in detail, what you feel, describe your emotion, don't be afraid to use "strong" language. Than sincere and more get the text, the easier you will realize how much ruins your life this feeling. After that you need to wikichat" their emotions. To do this, go to a deserted place, suitable for morning Park or forest, a deserted beach or an abandoned building on the outskirts of the city. Gather your forces and aloud confess their feelings and experiences. If you find it difficult to make it loud, start with a whisper, and then try to talk about that louder is better in the end to shout recognition. This method gives you temporary relief, every time the emotions overwhelm you and interfere with life, resort to it.

Sublimation and visualization

The second way is to benefit from your position. Unrequited love makes you stronger and sharper to perceive the world that is conducive to creativity. Try to write novels or poems or something musicroutes. Creativity helps to avoid frustration, dissatisfaction. If you do it persistently enough, you will be able to transform your love and make it a source of inspiration, change your approach to it.

The third way is to have awareness of their problems and visualize getting rid of it. Imagine unrequited love in the form of splinters or needles, stuck in your heart. Imagine how pull it with a suitable tool and thrown into the water. Watch as the needle sank and the pain-sliver floats away from you. Then imagine the wound from her in your heart begins to heal. This exercise should be performed several times a day during the week, every time you feel despair and love. Very soon you will feel the relief, the emotions will lessen, and your life will become easier.

Advice 4: What have the people

Usually dancing in a dream – a good sign. It is believed that dancing in a dream, as well as to observe dancing people – to the pleasant life change. However, psychologists say that dancing in the dream see mostly people working in them in reality. In this case, such dreams are empty.
Dancing in a dream - a good sign!

Dancing people. The Dream Miller

Dancing children in the dream are a harbinger of a happy marriage or a good marriage. The dreamers, watching the dream behind the dancing children, do not worry for my family future family they will have a friendly and marriage – happy. The people portend the dreamers interesting leisure and simple work. If you dream dancing pensioners in work and business, the coming bright future.

Dream interpretation of Freud, people are dancing in a dream

Sigmund Freud represents this dream with sexual intercourse. Two dancing people foreshadow the imminent sex in the life of the dreamer. If you had a group dance (e.g., Lambada), soon sleep will be a participant in the depraved sexual games. Watch in a dream that someone very beautiful dances, and get enormous pleasure from it means an incredible desire of the dreamer to try anything unlawful bypassing of human morality and social norms.

If dancing in a dream a couple is gay, the reality can happen the same sex. Perhaps the dreamer has long dreamed to try in the intimate sphere, a new sensation, but afraid of public condemnation. Interestingly, Sigmund Freud did not see anything wrong with that. Moreover, he even pushes the dreamer to realize their unfulfilled sexual dreams and ideas to life!

Dancing. Esoteric dream book

Watch in a dream for the people dancing on the stage means a kind of jealousy on the part of the dreamer. The fact that it is surrounded by wealthy people, which he was terribly jealous. If time does not stop, it can be psychologically obsessed or fall into a deep depression. If you dream that dancing people do it in the apartment or in the house, coming family scandals, quarrels and squabbles.

Dream interpretation Lofa: dancing

You can sometimes see the dream as some people dance to order. If this dance was commissioned by the dreamer, it indicates the corresponding relation of the sleeping to the people he saw. If dances there are elements of flirting, or can be traced to the explicit sex line, here are two options of interpretation: either the dreamer longs to one of the dancers, or he simply hates.

Modern dream interpretation: dancing people

Couples to see the dancing and playing children – fortunately. Their children will be kept happy parents, they will grow up intelligent and obedient. Their house will be full of comfort and warmth. If such a dream saw the young people, to live fun and carefree! Elderly people dancing in a dream, portend a career and success in business.
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