A ten-year term – he was the most difficult. The first ten years, traditionally and statistically are the most dangerous for the marriage.
If people managed to live together for 35 years, the probability of divorce is close to zero. People get divorced for various reasons – the household, financial matters, sex life.
And if they fail to solve the problems in the first ten years of marriage, then they will breakup. Sometimes a marriage can save a conscious decision to live together a few years – usually the situation is improving, and the couple receives congratulations at least on the silver wedding.
But there are spouses who are conscious decisions to anything – they are together because they are satisfied. Perhaps they have a secret - many will think. Yes, he is, but he's not terrible.
Friendship around the head
Canadian researchers, supported by impartial numbers, found that the happiest marriages are based on friendship. Unexpectedly, but it helps spouses to keep the warmth and mutual respect for decades. No matter what was the root cause of marriage – love or calculation, if the relationship develop into a real friendship, partners are more likely to keep them for decades.
What is friendship in marriage? This mutual support and sincerity, the separation of concerns and joys, fears and successes. The second important factor is awareness of the need for relationships, because people who have steam, obviously much happier than the singles, what would they say.
If you understand that marriage is an important part of life, and the desire to save becomes stronger. Interestingly, the happiness of partners depended on the degree of formality of marriage, people can just cohabit with each other or to have a document with a seal and a common family name, it doesn't matter.
Sleep together. It is very important that husbands and wives shared the same bed. And equally important, they fell asleep together. Sometimes owls and early risers, it is difficult to accommodate each other, but this does not mean that you should not try. Willingness to adapt to your mate even in such things speaks volumes.
It is also important to sleep as close as possible to each other. In fact, the physical distance between the partners speaks to the degree to which they are heartwarming – they are proportional. If you sleep curled up, or at least touching each other during sleep is the ideal option that promises a long and happy friendship marriage.