In our time gender equality we are accustomed to think that in a pair there is any problem — it's the fault of both. But psychologists have proven that it is not so.
"Parents want only the best for us"
Typically, everyone thinks so. And if mom did not like something in the behavior of a spouse of her child is, doubtless, a reason to wary. But it will be even better to sort things out, because my mother saw that insidious trait in your loved one that you so long to notice. And if you think, whose discontent poured on your partner? Or your mom's?
"In a good pair of no words I there is only we"
And this is one of the huge mistakes in your life. Setting aside own needs for the sake of a loved one, you run the risk of eventually be left with nothing. Any love has the ability to pass, and its place is awareness of reality. Then the man and realizes that he has no social life besides worrying about her beloved. And if in such a relationship there are problems, then not to avoid hysteria on the subject is given the best years of life, about the ingratitude for all the good and so on.
"The financial budget of the couple must be shared"
It's not such a great need, as is commonly believed. Pocket money has not been canceled, so the best option would be to divide all the money on mine, yours and ours. So each pair will have a little more financial freedom, which will give opportunity more often to please each other pleasant surprises.
"Opposites attract"
How to raise a child? To go to the sea or to visit distant relatives? To make repairs in the apartment or buy new furniture? Various household stuff build the Foundation of your relationship. And if the couple does not have at least some common views and interests, it will not last long.
"A woman needs"
Hammered in every woman's head from the cradle. "Well, you're a girl, behave modestly; I was raising children and caring for her husband; well, how can this woman not know?" Undoubtedly, it is heard almost every woman. Because of this, in the minds of some women formed the image of the perfect hostess, which keeps the entire family. And if in the future she will not be able to meet him, the beloved will appear disappointment in her that could adversely affect future relations.
If there are sincere feelings in a couple, then love conquers all. Most importantly, you need to remember that a willingness to listen to your partner and compromise is the key to long and happy life together.