What love is
Love is a kind of dependence on man. It is born of deep psychological, physiological and spiritual levels, the mechanism of which is still not fully solved by man. At this point, all associated with the love object takes on a special meaning. Makes life memorable and paints in bright colors.
People don't want to leave. There is a sense of integrity, clarity, happiness — everything that the person may lack long years of life.
But there may come a moment in which the beloved or the beloved ceases to meet expectations. In this period the person can build up resentment and feelings. Love still runs, but there is a strong desire to love.
The man is extremely difficult to independently analyze their thoughts and actions. The head builds up a huge charge of energy that has to be repaid. The most secure method helping in this is writing practice. This technique will help to restore the integrity of thoughts and to analyze the flow of events.
Make it easy enough. For this you will need only a Notepad, pen, a little time and patience. In a quiet environment should describe your feelings on paper. Most succinctly, in the smallest details and details. Words on paper have to be honest that you should never censor your thoughts.
After all the emotions are described, it is necessary to answer them. An internal dialogue and describe why a certain emotion arises in consciousness. Everything in our life has reasons, and they need to identify. This process may take, but it must be done in one day. The amount written should not be less than several pages.
Next, you should postpone the Notepad and not return to it at least for a few hours or even a couple of days. After this period it is necessary to describe in detail the person who actually need. What he needs to be. The description should be succinct, not to miss any resulting in mind.
After both descriptions, they should compare, analyze and make appropriate conclusions. You need to understand that no one can change a person. It should be taken for what it is, or not accept at all. All the negative features that are present in the object of love, with time will develop and more annoying. The worst — all described in 9 of 10 cases happen in the future.
A few days spent with a Notepad, will open your eyes to the stupidity of idealized thoughts. It appears that these problems are not important in life, there are many more important things, people, emotions are worth spending your hand.
Two or three sitting to operate the notebook will make me stop loving a person and come back to life to the fullest.
Advice 2: How to stop loving a girl you love
In the life of almost every man happen to love failure. And if the feelings are really strong, to stop loving the girl I love, will not immediately. However, there are methods that help to speed up the process.
For starters, let's say about what not to do trying to love a girl, is to binge and act according to the method of "like cures like". Booze will not help to extinguish the experience. On the contrary, very many, it makes depression worse. In addition, fascinated by this process, very easy to drink. Method "a wedge a wedge" will not bring anything except superficial acquaintances. As a result, they only strengthen the longing for her, because all the surrounding girls will seem "not so."
Now, where to begin. With the desire to stop loving the girl you love. Oddly enough, but many people, suffering from love, do not do this step. It is possible that they just don't understand that their desire may be to change something. Meanwhile, it is crucial. In order to efficiently formulate your desire, mark the time when you will not be disturbed, and think about what robs you of your unrequited feeling of self-esteem, good mood, good time, opportunity to build new relationships, and so on. Realizing this, firmly tell yourself that you are going to love the girl you love, and live on without her happy, fulfilling lives.
Then have the courage to give up everything that reminds you of the beloved: her photographs, gifts, forgotten her things. Erase the memory of "your" song, not revising the movies you once watched together. Delete her from your contacts in social networks, erase the numbers of its phones. It will not be easy, but then you will feel that you stand firmly on the path of liberation from hindering you feelings.
Similarly, avoid meetings and conversations with the girl and also with her girlfriends, friends, and those people with whom you used to talk about it.
Having done all, to trace his girlfriend disappeared from your horizon, to failure take all the time of his life that had even a minute in order to bump into thoughts about her. Take up a new project at work, sign up to the sports section, make new friends, find new classes. Let your life will not be what it was with her. While it is important to enjoy this new life. If you will be good to control yourself, love will quickly fade away.
Our subject today is hard and painful, namely, “How to forget your girlfriend”. Unfortunately, not yet invented such tablet, which would be possible without problems to solve this problem we are All human, we all have our views on love and relationships, and that one is easy and simple, others may take a lifetime.
Probably the same for all recipe for how to forget a girl you love does not exist. Will tell you as a woman. In practice, most of my male acquaintances, parting with their beloved, committed the same mistake: they continually kept talking about them, and, worse, comparing your ex with other women.