Most people, using the quarrel to cry, feels their helplessness and inability to reach an understanding with someone. Often it is an expression of fear, misunderstanding and powerlessness. In any case, you have to agree that a screaming person is most likely uncomfortable and he tries to change it. Without noticing it, making it impossible to cry and the conversation.
A reason to be afraid at everyone. You can shout from the fact that it is terrible to be alone and lose his only loved one. That is what little children, because for them it is a real tragedy: some in the big world they will not survive. And what makes us constantly go to the Creek adult self-sufficient man?
The reasons lie on the surface, can look beautiful, and fully justify it, but if you look deeper, you often find that things are not so great. The constant cry speaks of moodiness, irritability, incontinence. And if flashy is seeking to shift the blame on the other saying that was taken out himself, it shows the unwillingness to change and take responsibility for their actions. Hardly anyone would allow themselves to so out, for example, alone with five bullies in a dark alley, but with subordinates at work, many are trying to expose themselves unfortunate victim of the provocation.
The constant cry also means that people already feel their impunity. With him refused to communicate and cooperate after the first and second, and maybe third incident, and probably he got scared from the outburst of a man what could not be achieved without shouting. Although such people claim that not being able to control themselves, this is often not true. For those who really cannot restrain themselves, there are sedative drugs, and these people have no contact with the healthy. The rest are invented by the its helplessness in order to continue to obtain whatever he wants and accuse people in the provocation, and lost miles of nerves.
Most people are well aware that shouting will achieve nothing, and therefore does not shout in situations where it's really pointless. The victims of his bad temper be or subordinates at work or family members.