The situation when the penis does not arise, occurs more frequently than the older man. Reasons for lack of erection are many - ranging from medical and psychological ending.
Medical causes all the diseases that can affect the lack of erection. Any medications that a man takes, can also be the cause of fiasco in bed.
The situation when people took a certain dose of alcohol is rather related to psychological. The girl is important in this case to do the right thing and not get the guy to stop, because nothing good such aspirations end. It will just try in vain.
It also happens that a man healthy and sober, but nevertheless all the affection of the girl without success. What to do in this case?
A very important role psychology plays. A place where engaged partners, the situation around the presence or absence of people, light or dark the room is just a few factors that can like or dislike the man. Banal reason of lack of erection can be simple fatigue.
If you feel that your partner is experiencing any problems, just talk to him. Don't raise your tone is most important. A man is not to blame for the fact that his sexual organ behaves in a similar way. The most important thing is to figure out what went wrong. Following is an example: you caress it gently, and he prefers a more rigid affection. As a result of your "head" is not enough.
Do everything in your power in order to eliminate the lack of erection. Remember: sex should be only for love. If you love your partner, you can always find the compromise that will suit both of you.
If you find that your partner is bothered about something, get tested. Your actions must be completely subordinated to the instructions of the attending physician.
Advice 2: What to do if you come too quickly
Do not panic!
Understand one simple thing – a healthy average male reaches orgasm within 3-5 minutes after beginning intercourse. So if friends or girls tell you stories about the sex that lasted for hours, it is worth considering the plausibility of these stories. In other words, don't bother because you are not strong enough in bed or something radically different from the others.
Of course, premature ejaculation can be caused by some diseases, but if you keep within 5 minutes, to worry especially not worth it. Your health is in the normal range. Another issue is that the woman to achieve orgasm five minutes is not enough. Hence, there are disagreements between partners, resentment, scandals and serious problems in the relationship. Do not panic!
How to reduce arousal
If the man is difficult to restrain the ejaculation, the reason probably lies in excessive excitation. After a long abstinence from sex or, in the case when the partner is too strong desire, a man usually cums pretty quickly. Therefore, to prolong the pleasure for you and partner, you should resort to means of reducing arousal. The first and most obvious is the condom. In itself, it reduces the stimulation, but if you have to buy special condoms with an anesthetic, the sexual act can be prolonged for 5-7 minutes. This time will be enough to bring to the highest point of pleasure a woman. And from then on it will be easier.
Another common way to reduce arousal – slow pace. The faster you move in the process, the sooner there comes an orgasm, and slow power moves it slightly to delay. If a man feels that will come right now, you can resort to the classical method of stopping – just in time to stop contact and give yourself a break for 20-30 seconds. This time can be spent to stimulate the partner or passionate kisses. This technique allows to prolong sexual intercourse.
In the first place partner
Actually, for what man wants to make sexual intercourse more long-lasting? To deliver more pleasure to the woman. Try to approach the problem from the other side and before the start of sex to bring your beloved to a semiconscious state. Increase the time of foreplay, experiment as to sex, and after it. Remember that you can pleasure a woman can not only by a series of reciprocating movements!