No wonder when talking you should look people in the eye. It turns out those who do not want to give up the secrets in important negotiations, and sometimes even wear dark glasses. If the interlocutor's eyes widen, then, to talk to either the person speaking with him, he is clearly not indifferent. If the person in the course of the conversation something just makes, then he will look up to the left. And if he looks up, but right this minute he's trying to remember a certain image.
Another important factor is the body language of the interlocutor. For example, in the middle of important conversation a person directs his feet towards the door. This means that most of all he wants to quickly end the conversation and exit. But if your friend clearly crossed over his chest, it is quite possible that your ideas or position, he would not accept.
But the easiest way to "count" the thoughts of others, paying close attention to the voice of a man. However, to unfamiliar people, this method is not applied: the voice you should know perfectly. At the changing tone in the course of conversation, we can understand many of the nuances. But speaking with strangers it is best to watch how they react to other people.
If a person tries to lie, then this can tell you a lot of features. Eyes of the liar run, he tries to avoid meeting his eyes, hands nervously shaking a little. Besides, telling lies is the source of the arms and legs were held together, in such a way as if trying to take up less space. Perhaps he will try to shut you in any subject or will be constantly touching your ears and nose. And when you deliberately change the subject, you will immediately see the relief on the face of such a person. While emotions expressed on the face may not match what the liar says.
If all these methods use complex, to read some thoughts of his opponent is very simple.
Advice 2: How to determine your calling
Vocation is for everyone, but often it fades into the background, because in high school we hear about what a good job is a job, for which you pay a lot. So many people think about exactly how to go to College at the prestigious specialty. However, knowing their purpose and using them to work and earn it easier to do what you like better.
Remember that in the childhood you liked that you did well in school to solve problems in mathematics or to write essays? Our vocation is formed in childhood. Of course, it is impossible to determine who in the future should become the eight-year-old child, however, a tendency to exact or human Sciences is quite possible to identify.
You can think about what you like to do. No matter what it is - reading, working in the garden, playing on the computer. Hobbies talking about people more than they think. Those who like, for example, the embroidery (that is quite a monotonous job that requires attention and care), certainly prone to scrupulous work that requires concentration. Accordingly, the woman, was fond of embroidering, suitable administrative job or work, for example, in the accounting Department.
To help identify the calling test for career guidance. Of course, they can't give the exact answer what you are most capable of, what you should be, but at least help determine the areas in which it is possible to try to determine the exact vocation. They also help to weed out what you just do not fit. Take the test for career guidance in personnel Agency or in a special center.
Cannot one hundred percent be sure if one or the other field of activity, prior to joining it. Sometimes it happens that the specialty that seemed interesting at the University, in practice it turns out boring.
If you realize that your work is not very suitable for you, do not like does not match your calling (for example, it was found that you gravitate more towards journalism than advertising), it is better to think about how to change it or at least try to work in a field that you consider your vocation. Know that what you like better. Accordingly, it is easier to make a career doing what you love.
Advice 3: How to read minds in the face
In certain situations I would like to know about others and need to learn how to literally "read thoughts", that is, to understand what emotions and feelings one experiences at the moment. There is even a science – physiognomy, which allows to predict the actions and desires, focusing only on facial features and facial expressions.
Much can be understood by the eyes of the interlocutor. For example, if he rolls his eyes up and it says its strong irritation. Lifted up, and then quickly allocated to the right eye indicate that the person that is trying to remember.
There is one trick by which you can determine lying or telling the truth. It is the following – if after your question the other person will look up and to the right, so he's going to tell the truth, and if up and left to lie.
In NLP (neuro linguistic programming) the ability to read the eyes is called "key-eye". Experts claim that it operates almost one hundred percent, even if the person absolutely not familiar to you.
An interesting approach is the following – look "right and down". This means inner monologue or even dialogue, as well as control of speech. This view says that man is very carefully choosing words to communicate and is afraid to tell something superfluous, in his view.
There is a special complex of exercises which helps to develop the ability to "read" a person by his face, facial expressions and gestures. Of course, in order to learn this, we need training and experience. To get started you will need a helper. His role is that he should turn to think about the good and the bad. Your task – to understand and feel at what point he thought about the negative and the positive.
Interesting and effective is the exercise in search of items hidden your partner. You have to ask questions to the helper, but it doesn't have to answer out loud – let thinks to himself. The expression on his face you should try to understand where the hidden object.
Another assistant sees something you do not see. Your task is to draw the facial expression of the interlocutor. And the most important condition is that you needs at this moment nothing to think. Most likely, the picture and the facial expression of the assistant match.