Advice 2 : How a husband should treat his wife
Advice 3 : How to behave after a divorce
Preservation of friendly relations
How to avoid divorce, you can speak constantly and useless. Here it is necessary to clearly determine the causes, circumstances and adequately assess the situation. If people went to sign the divorce papers, then it is reasons. But if it is inevitable, but you need to try to maintain normal relations. Most often, divorce to women, they are a little easier to get through this process than men. For men a divorce is the loss of ownership, that is, its women.
Lost interest to each other
If the decision to divorce is based on this problem, it is not necessary to change it. No need to torture yourself and begin to live separately, people should be able to look truth in the eye and make a definitive decision. Not worth the loss of the senses to be confused with the difficult period of the relationship, which is loving people worried. If you don't have any feelings towards your soulmate, then at least respect for the person with whom you have lived for some time in one house and fell asleep in the same bed must be present. Therefore, in the next six months do not start a new relationship or at least not to advertise it. From the side you would think that the reason for divorce was adultery.
In a divorce it is important to keep the child's psyche and normal with respect to each of the parents. That is, the child needs to be protected from quarrels and scandals, which influenced the decision to divorce. Try to explain to the child why, it is better if the conversation will be present both parents. If one talks to a child about this, you should not say bad things about the other parent, because the child's relationship to him may not change, but you will change for the worse. You must be able to maintain its authority and dignity.
Advice 4 : How husband to live with wife
How to treat a man to his wife?
A man should respect and cherish your mate. When people get married, they promise each other to keep their love. However, this is not entirely correct. Love is a feeling that is either there or not. It is foolish to promise something that you cannot control. But respect is quite manageable. The representative of the stronger sex needs to listen to the views of his wife, to take care of it and treat it gently.
The husband is obliged to remain faithful to his wife. Adultery destroys family ties, even if they have nothing will not know of the second half. The fact that in the case of spousal betrayal, a man will feel guilt. Because of this, the relationship between the lovers will become strained and this can even lead to divorce.
The husband should listen to his wife. Remember that women share with her husband some information, their thoughts and their own point of view not to listen to his sermons, but rather with the intention that he just heard about their ideas and experiences. They just need someone to talk to, and if the husband will teach his wife life, it is unlikely the family will be stronger.
What should a husband do to keep the family strong?
It is known that women are not always able to decide on any serious and responsible step. That is why the husband must support the wife in her aspirations, not to discourage any particular action. If the wife is committed to self-realization, wants to find a job, do not discourage her, let her feel the satisfaction from the achieved goals.
To maintain cordial relations in the family, the representative of the stronger sex should take any differences between him and his partner. Perhaps the spouses will have different opinions about certain things or different tastes in music, Hobbies, interests. The husband should never criticize his lawful wife.
If a man wants to be a proper husband, he must always be responsible for any word he said and never lie to his lover, to help her and to provide moral and material support, as well as being sensitive and gentle. No need to think that after marriage, the girl doesn't need compliments, gifts and surprises. A good husband in any case would not treat his wife with indifference, otherwise he will simply lose it.