People like to compare yourself with others, be equated. To worry about what someone has, a big house, a beautiful one, wonderful kids, someone is satisfied with the eternal moving and travelling. And thinking meanwhile ridicule himself because he has neither the one nor the other, and in life he did the such is not achieved, the path is wrong. And even worse - to understand that everything in life is not the way I would like and slander behind the achievements of other people more successful.
As they say unhappy people: "Yes, it is from the parents inherited.", "Yes she head found!", "Yes, he was just always lucky!". No, of course, someone may simply lucky with their parents, or really lucky, but the majority of people achieves success by overcoming an incredible amount of obstacles, sleepless nights and exorbitant labor.
What is important for yourself to consider? You want to capture in your mind a time when you never left a state of euphoria. And to return to it when necessary.
And the secret of happiness only in the things that people often do not notice around. Focusing on material welfare, they may miss so many things in life are important. It is sometimes useful to look back on the sides. Isn't it amazing - spring blooming fragrant flowers, the petals of which glow from the penetrating rays of the warm sun? Isn't it amazing - beautiful sunsets, reminiscent of the sparkling magic covering? Isn't it amazing to Wake up every day and enjoy the sunlight coming in from the window? But as beautiful in the winter! How can you be sad when there is such a tale. White canvas covering the city envelops the magic and comfort all around. And as well on the street to walk in the rain, fresh air inspires and relaxes. The sea is vast and so mysterious. Smiles of loved ones. A hug with a loved one. Is it not happiness? There is so much beautiful if you open your eyes wider.
The main mistake of many people is that they reluctantly withdrawn from his happiness, saying aloud, "I'm unhappy", thus further aggravating the situation and bringing yourself to a standstill.
A piece of your favorite chocolate with a delicious coffee may well deliver the most pleasant experience, but if you combine his favorite composition, such activities truly can be called pleasure. As if suddenly overcome by feeling of sorrow and grief, to invite friends to visit and spend time. And you can visit your favorite area in the city, from which sprout wings. This can be a favorite cafe, a favorite Park, public garden, and maybe just favorite bench. Happiness is all around us, if you want to see and feel.