It is important to first determine the original cause of the conflict. Especially if the quarrel arose out of nowhere. Most of these quarrels are given to understand that the second half needs attention. Better in this case to step back and not rush the words. After all, words can hurt to hurt, and reassured nobody will forget.
The first way decisions are concessions. However, they should occur on both sides. Do not blindly to please, as the marriage may collapse at any moment, when the Cup of concessions and grievances will be filled with someone one.
The second method is a compromise. For example, the husband wants to go fishing, and the wife of kebabs. This vacation can be combined and then no one gets hurt. It is impossible to come to a decision when neither gets what he wants. Then resentment will accumulate both of you, and solving them is more difficult.
The best way is cooperation. In this case, the issue should be discussed calmly with the point of view of someone who appeared. Cooperation will help to find an option that suits both parties, and the conflict will be resolved peacefully. You can offer your partner to discuss the conflict over a Cup of coffee or tea in a cafe, where you can easily talk about the urgent family problems.
There are situations where these methods do not work. In this case, it would be useful to seek the assistance of a third party. Most often it is family therapists. These people see the situation from the outside and treat it with impartiality that allows them to evaluate it and suggest a solution. It is important to know your partner, his views on life, on life and other things. Perhaps one of the spouses will have to go against himself, and if he is not ready, the marriage will end.
In such situations, the main thing - to remain calm, to correctly understand and hear your partner. If you manage to identify the problem correctly, then less time can take to resolve the matter.
Do not forget that family is a hard work. For the benefit of the two people. And in any kind of work has its own difficulties. We just need to solve them together and to approach this case with maximum efficiency.