Advice 1: How to meet a gay

To meet a guy gay just as a heterosexual guy. There are many opportunities to implement these goals. Here the main thing - be careful not to fall into the embarrassing situation.
How to meet a gay
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The most popular way to meet a gay on the Internet. Today, many Dating sites allow you to set your profile belong to a homosexual. In addition, they give the opportunity of finding pairs on the same criterion. To do this, simply type in the search what you are looking for guy and a gay guy, and also indicate its age. After that, the website will filter out the questionnaire, heterosexual men and show you guys. This way of Dating with sexual minorities is very convenient because you already know that you like the guy has the same orientation as you, which greatly simplifies the tying of Dating.
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To meet a guy homosexual can be and special parties, which are organised in gay clubs. Such discos and parties differ from the ordinary only to those that go there only representatives of sexual minorities. So there you can be sure that whatever guy you may have addressed he would be gay or at least bisexual.
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There are other places where guy can meet gay. For example, it can be closed clubs that organize Swinger nights in safe houses and saunas are specifically for gay people. However, it is unlikely that this experience will allow you to make acquaintance with a gay man for a lasting relationship. Rather, they will help you to find a guy for an intimate relationship at one time.
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In many cities there are places where usually gather representatives of nonconventional orientation. Of course, you will not need to stand there with a banner: "Looking for a gay guy". It would be correct just to make acquaintance with a young man, and later, after more or less prolonged communicate, you can learn the orientation of the guy. However, you need to be careful because you can meet a negative response.
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It is very difficult to make acquaintance with a gay man in a normal situation, when you can't be sure of the sexual orientation of the elect. At the slightest hint of the convergence of a heterosexual guy going to guess about your preferences and, most likely, will refuse you and will ignore. If you have associates or friends of the same orientation as you, better contact them, asking them to introduce you to a guy.
Useful advice
The main thing to meet gay need to act. No one is immune from mistakes, and therefore do not despair and keep looking.

Advice 2: How to find a gay man

If you want to know whether the man is gay, you need to observe him for a while, observing some caution. However, you cannot be certain for sure with her thoughts until, until the person confesses to you that the.
How to find a gay man
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If you have a suspicion that the man you know is gay, don't try to learn it from his friends. The worst thing you can do is to ask questions about a person's sexual orientation to his friends. Even so, perhaps his friends are not aware of this. In any case, such questioning would harm this man, whether about gay or not. These actions of you or spread unfounded rumors about a person either openly interfering in his personal life he might want to hide. In addition, if the man finds out about your actions, he never admits to this matter.
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Don't judge a man by the style of his clothes. There is a widespread belief that if a man wears tight clothes vivid colorings, he's probably gay. It is not, any man can dress in a similar way, it has nothing to do with his orientation. In addition, many athletes and metrosexuals wear these clothes, it's just a style followed by many.
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Pay attention to how people react to talking about gays. Specific responses, outstanding gay, in this case does not exist, however, some signs can still indicate this. If a man defends the rights of gays, supports the probability that he is gay, high. However, many people who have something to hide about themselves probably won't care enough about gays. Try to discuss this topic with someone in his presence and see the reaction of the person you suspect. If he is gay, most likely it will be to listen carefully to the opinions of your interlocutor.
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Reaction to the opposite sex can also give some assumptions about the orientation of the person. But here, confidence can not be. If a man has no friend or even acquaintance, it can be assumed that he is gay, although it is also possible that he's just a very shy person. It is also important to consider its age. If a guy goes to school and he never had a girlfriend, the likelihood that he's gay is much lower than if in such a situation is forty years old man.
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Finally, you can directly ask the person about his orientation. However, you must be a good reason. For example, you are very close with the person and want to know everything about it or your friend and you as a woman want a relationship with him. If you are motivated by just curiosity, forget about this method. In addition, whatever you have done in trying to ask the man about his orientation, be prepared for a negative reaction on his part. It would only mean that he is not ready to open communication on this subject, you are absolutely not and.

Advice 3: How to stop being gay

To start is to ask ourselves: do we really need to stop being gay? After all, homosexuality is not a disease, mental disorders (egodystonic) is extremely rare. And the society, in this case Russia, though not becoming more tolerant, but also aggression towards gays is also showing quite rare. However, the cases are different. It is necessary — means necessary.
How to stop being gay
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Finally, ask yourself: do you want to try a traditional relationship? Answer not immediately. Consider the age, homosexual experience, remember when and under what circumstances did you realize you are gay, you are ready for such changes your loved ones, and are you willing to experience some inconvenience related to the fact that change of sexual orientation would entail a change of lifestyle?
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Given that homosexuality is not just gay sex, and the full range of feelings, start with trying to Express sympathy towards persons of the opposite sex. First, it will be difficult, but don't try immediately to treat a woman as a woman. Try to be interested in it as a person. Look for it in what you like and certainly does not correlate with the floor.
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Behavior, including sexual, balance between the three spheres: instincts, emotions and mind. Sexual attraction — pure instinct — love- to back up his emotion, the relationship is a reasonable settlement of the emotions and instincts. The opposite also happens: the mind is unable to hold back any emotions or instincts. Get familiar with them. Man, though the primacy, but not the animal, sometimes it is better to think than to follow my feelings. Especially if they are caused by, for example, the fashion for all things forbidden (gay is not by birth, but "at the behest of time" are quite common).
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Change the cultural background. LGBT mass culture often resembles a cult: films gay clothing for gay men, fragrances for gays, etc. Discard self-presentation as a man homosexual. Being met on clothes, you will be able faster and easier to realign the mind.
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If long attempts to influence their sexual orientation will not bring tangible results, stop and if necessary go back to them no earlier than six months or a year. During this time you will have not one the opportunity to weigh the "pros" and "cons" and to affirm or cancel the selection you made.
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Attempts to change sexual orientation can cause anxiety, so before you take steps, it will be useful to consult a psychologist.
Useful advice
If you are gay and at the same time, a godly man, go to confession and talk to your Confessor. Maybe he will give some extraordinary advice that will have an impact on your views. However, remember that in most monotheistic religions is that God created men equal and loves everyone equally.
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